Preface: I made a post about a week ago detailing my dilemma about being objectively about 20% better physically and having better style than a year ago and yet pulling a lot less, which I attributed to my personality becoming a bit jester-like. I think I figured out my actual issue:
A year ago, I was actively applying redpill concepts to my life pretty well. I pulled the baddest girl of my life and despite the best times of my life, I had a constant nagging feeling that she was way out of my league and this lead me on a "blackpill looksmaxxing" journey, essentially where I focused on my physical image, gained a lot of muscle, improved my style and fixed my hair and started doing skincare.
The problem: Although I am content with the way I look now, I have been so focused on my own looks as a man for this past year which has turned me fucking weird. I'm constantly stressing if I look good or not, to the point where it's extremely detrimental and I'm just mentally out of it whenever I go out and give off a weird vibe.
How do I go about fixing this?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
The bar for women to fuck a dude isn't being a 10 (except in a extremely rare cases, picky super models, and celebrities)
Women fuck for more than just looks. They fuck for emotional stimulation. Looking good might make them more inclined to fuck you than not but most women won't fuck a good looking guy anyway unless he also emotionally stimulates them in the right way and has a pre-requisite level of social intelligence to pull off a pull/lay
You're overly focused on 40% or less of the pie when that chick has probably fucked for less than your SMV
financehardo420 2y ago
being good looking makes them more receptive and let’s you play on easy mode. the rest lies in the Rizz and applying red pill brotha. You even said it yourself; when you applied redpill you had better results
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
Rizzle to the Jizzle, m' Nizzle...
financehardo420 2y ago
Hahahah it’s not even Ebonics bro it’s gen z vocab
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
They're both retarded
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
LMAO yeah they are...
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
"skin care" and "stressing about my looks" = gay.
Maybe you are pulling less because you have morphed into a complete woman. "so focused on my looks" .......what the hell?
STFU and be a man.