how do you say no to going out?
how do you stay mentally healthy while not fucking any bitches?
how do you not lose the rizz after extended monk mode?
Do you have to go full monkmode or can you have cheat days?
Is monkmode worth it?
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I kinda just wanna take some time to get my career/life sorted instead of wasting time trying to get laid.
Every time I go out it’s like 50/50 odds of getting laid; or I hit up a plate but I swear I get bored of chicks so fast I usually would rather have new pussy lol.
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
a) I’m not in the real world; I’m in a college town so ya haha
b) what else would you call either you do or you don’t lmfao. It’s a coin toss
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
A) precisely; ratio is ab 50:50 and as they say top 20% bag 80% of the birds. That makes it roughly 2 chicks per dick (that actually has a shot at fucking).
B) I guess both period of time and yes literally 50:50. With the math from A) in mind; there’s only 3 nights in a given week where I would go out. Tues for $2; the first bar I’d go to = just getting prospects; maybe 20% of time there you’ll actually get laid first night) and then I go next door to shoot Hail Marys around 1-2am. Both bars are less of a club type of atmosphere and more of a bar where you can talk to ppl etc etc and has a social vibe. Wednesdays same exact plot only I start at the bar right next to my apt. Last year this was 100% success rate pretty much at the first stop; this year not so much but Hail Marys after. And Friday same route as Tuesday. I avoid the club type bar bc I play to my strengths; I can Rizz a girl up and shoot buckets but I’m not 6”2 chad so birds typically aren’t approaching me in the club.
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wswZtyqNGQ 1y ago
Damn, man! I've tracked top 1% players and they rarely had more than 33% F-close success. Even with Saturday night full room warm-up plus cab share pickups (the best tactic imaginable!) they rarely could get 50% F-close.
Either the world has changed a lot in the last 10 years or something is off.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
That sounds more like the real world vibe; kinda scared to see what my success is gonna look like out there. My boy graduated n he’s a 6”2 giga chad. Moved to Chicago and even he’s having trouble w closing at bars (without using tinder). Have been to chi couple times n it’s damn near challenging to get randoms to talk to you lol
Again college town environment; entire city is built around the campus and it’s mainly meant for the 40k undergrad/20k postgrad students in this city. It’s also a bit of a party school so like tues/weds/thurs/Fri/sat ppl are partying
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I personally think monk modes are better suited for situations in which your mental health is in the absolute shitter and women are the last thing you need or if you have a time sensitive grind that requires minimal distraction
Monk modes otherwise are just discipline heavy exercises simply because you have a mild life inconvenience. At that point that's just a you choice and no one but you can decide that
Monk mode as you wish but i find it to be confusing to do a monk mode unless you truly need it or just really need/want to get ahead. Doing a monk mode when you don't need it is just going to be a conflicting discipline struggle session. By all means it's fine but if you're malcontent with it why do it?
Thus monk mode best reserved for necessity or genuine desire to do one, not "oh yeah i could do a monk mode lol but I'm unsure of it"
If you're unsure of it you don't need a monk mode. That's a you choice
User4566 1y ago
I’d suggest going out on hikes and exploring the outdoors with friends. Maybe a new hobby to help keep you occupied instead of having all this time to go out.
If I were you, I’d go monk for a month or two just to see how you’re feeling emotionally because from the sound of it: you seem a distressed. Maybe you need a break from the crazy. Learn to sit back and breathe for a bit, it’s pretty healthy.
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
"no".
If you have to give a reason you are weak.
That's one of the costs and why a lot of people shouldn't do it.
If you have cheat days, it's not monk mode.
If you're a fat simping beta, yes. For most men, no.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
When I first got to my school here I was basically in monk mode. but I got like single digit body counts per year bc I didn’t go out and barely checked tinder/my phone. On one hand, I was doing great in school but on the other I could tell my personality was getting sucked away. Had to rebuild the Rizz. But I will say easier when physically fit vs when not.
How do you find a balance between being high performance in your path/purpose vs having fun and going out and getting laid? When I was in like ig monk mode even if I tried to go out all I could think about is how much more work I had to do and it defeated the purpose of going out; hated every second of it.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
This is your choice to make, we can't make it for you.