TRP says getting angry is (bad/beta/losing frame/etc).
However, I think a certain type of anger is a turn on for women.

For example:
Recently, a Bumble girl flaked on me.

I could've:
a) gotten butthurt: "How could you do this to me?"
b) played it cool: "np, another time baby" (what I usually do)

But I was actually mad (and didn't care if I lost her), so I picked c) "How dare you little bitch. Now I'm gonna punish your pussy."

This led to her eventually meeting me later that same night.
I fucked her 3 times since. She'll be back tomorrow.

However, I've tried this with another girl I've been sexting with.
She seems to get off on my anger (but without actually meeting me).
So in this case, I think I should pull back.

How to navigate this?
Is this just a thing that is going to vary from girl to girl?
Or am I doing something wrong?