They are easier to undertand with examples
example 1) i was reading this online forum and i already noticed that woman have more experience to talk about, i was already "activated" by this, something inside was moving. At some point i noticed a female user, i went on her profile to read her last messages, she's basically a female that thinks the world is disneyland. A guy asked how to find a girlfriend and she replied "you can use tinder but be carefull because most people there only want occasional sex, you'll have to vet A LOT" so this woman thinks that things for man and woman are the same, she really thinks that man have a lot of matches like her and have to vet. I was triggered you have no idea, it's like a rage attack, it's like detonating a grenade inside.
I kept reading her message, another guy asked how to meet people in a new city, she replied "you'll have to put yourself out there bla bla bla i didnt find true love yet but i have my "circle" of friends with benefits".
So this woman is spinning plates, like the evil redpill guys advice man to do, and she thinks for a guy it will be easy just like it was for her.
Another post a female asked about occasional sex and catching feelings after fucking for a year, she replied "usually ocasional sex doesent last that match because after some months you end up meeting and fucking other people"
Again she thinks the average guy is meeting and fucking people with her same frequency. It's like they live in another world, probably 50% of man her age are virgins.
Now i'm not here to discuss this, we already know it's like this, thats why we became redpilled in the first place, and lets be honest not all woman are doing this, we just focus on the younger woman who are doing this.
the problem is not sexual dynamics, it's my reaction, i'm 35 and been redpilled for so many years, i was 15 when i started having doubts, yet i have this gut reaction as if the wound is still fresh
and i'm not joking, this is not superficial, the amount of anger when i get triggered is unbelievable, it's huge, i would smash my head into the wall to stop feeling it, it's not a joke...this and young girls kissing and stuff like that, but thats most common for people who missed out
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Well for starters i screen out sluts to begin with. They exist and it disgusts me so i don't go for them nor let them fuck me.
That being said you can't control all the delusional sluts in the world. Keep in mind they have easy sex but are on fast track to spinster land because they can't lock down a man..
These women win on the front end and lose on the back end. So you can't look at this the way a man would.
Most men would think it'd be so awesome to have all these women to fuck any time because they have to actually grind for it but a lot of women look at their sexual availability and opportunity like a partial problem. A lot of these women get mental problems from getting ran through without commitment so they're not celebrating it the same way you look at all the possible fun you'd be having if you had their sexual opportunity
Also yes, dumb hoes exist on the Internet..you can be sickened by it but she's just a dumb hoe. Focus on the ones that aren't like her
And get in some notches yourself. You said you had opportunity. Take it and start getting experience
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JamesSkepp Moderator 1y ago
Start binging on RP outrage videos on yt. Watch everything that shows how women behave, watch the "gotya slut" videos, watch the podcasts where they invite a ton of women just to dunk on them.
The goal is to watch so many of these that you become desensitized to that. I would recommend going out a lot and acclimatizing yourself to female nature in person but that takes years if you don't go out religiously.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
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I'd take this a step further. Fuck a slut and then fuck a girl who isn't a complete sloot and you'll quickly see a lot of the difference between different kinds of women
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Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
ngl - your post seems quite messed up.
I am not sure that you will get what you need to get better on this site. I would recommend talking to close friends, maybe a therapist.
Maybe try to develop friendships with other males, your network etc a bit, and lay off the quest for finding a 'good girl'.
You seem to oscilate between 'all women are sluts' and 'I wanna find a good girl'. But you are stuck in a doom loop, because all girls are sluts, and you want a girl that's not a slut, round and round it goes. You are disgusted by the very idea of a woman having sexual desires. This is a kind of Madonna/whore complex.
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Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
I think you should calm down a bit dude. You asked for advice, and they you blow up when you don't like the advice. Which is dumb.
Bear in mind, you're the guy that told us all that when you see couples holding hands you have fantasise about running into bars and clubs and stabbing women.
So. maybe, just maybe, you should talk to someone. It's not a sign of failure to talk to a therapist or talk to close friends. And its not an insult to suggest that as advice, given the seriousness of your triggers and thoughts.
And maybe re-read my post buddy. I never said I you don't belong on this site.
Ps. You are right, I am a 15 year old boy, a homosexual and a woman.
AsianDude 1y ago
Agreed... 10 char
Durek_The_Bald 1y ago
So stop actively seeking out dumb shit that women say online, if that triggers you so much. And while you're at it, stop actively seeking out "red pill" rage bait as well, which I suspect you consume too much of.
AsianDude 1y ago
Ultimately everyone has the 'right' to live the life they want and 'enjoy' the consequences they reap. Not sure why you are so bothered over someone's online comments?
tbh a woman 'spinning plates' is hardly impressive. Men and Women are valued by different metrics and most average or better women will have no issues doing that.
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redhawkes 2 1y ago
You got it wrong dude, she is the plate.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I’m saying this in the nicest most constructive way possible with nothing but good intentions: I think you need to seek therapy bro. You come off as a completely unhinged person in just about 100% of your posts. You’re either going to wind up seriously hurting yourself or even worse someone else.
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
If you’ve been advised to do therapy ab a million times it’s prob for the best that you do it brotha
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