Yes I know girls are good at playing Innocent, but I’m asking how to tell if she’s the 1% that actually is that.
this girl I’m dating told me on our first date she had one ex (so I already assumed she’s using this as a lie to say her n count is not high) and she was acting very innocent. I assumed she’s trying to play me. However after another month, she revealed to me that she’s a virgin after the convo came up. Here’s the thing, if she’s truly lying why wouldn’t she tell me at the first date she’s a virgin too?
Also a few of her green flags below:
- has good connection with her dad
- religious
- always fights me to pay the bill and actually pays
- offers to plan the date and also drive to me instead
- always makes time whenever if I ask if she’s free
- has good friend circle
What are some other things I can do to make sure if she actually the 1%?
Edit: to the mf that downvotes my every post, dm me I wanna set up a fight with you. I will come to you faggot.
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
My take: unless she’s from your hometown and you grew up together you’re never really gonna know 100%. The best you can do is observe her behavior and watch what she does not what she says. Maybe she hasn’t fucked a lot of dudes but maybe she was the village bicycle for blowies in hs. You really have no way of knowing until you’ve had experience with a lot of sluts and good girls and everything in between.
Good connection with her dad and religious is a green flag. No tattoos, no excessive piercings = green flag. Dressing moderately = green flag. Low social media following = green flag. No pics of her ass on ig = green flag. No online dating apps = green flag. If she says she’s a virg and you actually pop her cherry when you fuck = green flag.
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TRPDuryodhana 1y ago
I agree.
Had met this chick at a religious community. She checked off lots of boxes from above. Almost no social media, extremely religious (to point of being a religious recruiter), dressing modestly, obv. no tattoos or piercings, etc.
But then she (mid 40's-early 50's age) started running her game on me (~24 at the time). Sexy talks on phone, calling for bs reasons, revealing and twisting her tongue in front me. Completely bizzare. A chick that is so outwardly religious, spreading her religion to the world, acting like a complete slut in private. Though now that I think of it, there were obvious red flags.
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Very good point, what would you consider a low social media following/ followers on Instagram for say?
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
Under 1k followers; 100k-200k snap score
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
1k followers? Look up Dunbar's Number. Basically the upper limit of people that you can know is 150.
Someone with 1k followers is broadcasting to people she does not know, to get their validation and attention from people that she does not know.
Think about that.
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
Just looked up Dunbar number. Interesting concept; makes sense.
I get what ya mean and esp if they’re actively posting on social media that’s significantly worse. However; todays modern age social media just made it easier like I have friends from middle school, elementary school, high school, both of my colleges etc etc on my instagram.
While not an absolute; if shawty has 1k+ followers she prolly for the streets
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helpfulguy22 1y ago
Lol I had to bro this troll downvoted all my posts.
Hmm I see that’s a good point, I guess the issue is lots of girls play innocence, so it’s hard to filter out the actual 1% if chick that ain’t putting up a front.
redhawkes 2 1y ago
Wait, the bitch is blueballing you for over a month and you ask us if she's an unicorn? Ayy lmao
Always assume she's a hoe and let her prove to yourself. The words coming out of her mouth are just noise.
Yup, seen this shit too many times. If you LTR her, expect the "Im not ready yet" and "you only want me for sex" bullshit. She's probably not a virgin, just using it to bait dumb betas into relationship. I used to know some guys like that, ltr a hoe, then wait for 9 months to touch her tits, while she was passed like a joint before. Don't be that guy.
Sex first, anything else later. Arrange a date and smash my dude.
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Also another thing, hoes usually lie about having a low body count, never being a virgin. Because lots of women bleed in their first time, so if they don’t they are aware that conversation will always come up.
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Naw bro I think u misunderstood my question. I agree with u, lots of hoes play that innocent card, my question is more so like how do I know this chick ain’t playing that card and actually the 1% of women that are innocent.
Here is the thing, if u play game on a proper woman u end up losing her too. So I just want to make sure I handle this one properly.
redhawkes 2 1y ago
You need to vet her. No matter how good she's capping, shit always pops up on the surface around the 5th month.
Some chicks think being a virgin/not experienced is a turnoff for guys, hence not telling you right away. Pure solipsism.
You're putting the cart before the horse. Relationship things are her prerogative, yours is to fuck her. It's really easy to see if she's a virgin, that's why she's taking the pussy hostage. Beware the technical virgins.
Nope, this is scarcity mindset. Game works on both sluts and "good girls". It's the overgaming that'll bite your ass. If you have the TRP tenets internalized, you're good.
Social media followers are useless metric. The biggest sluts I've smashed had 200-300 followers on ig.
As I said, you need to escalate asap and smash. Don't step on your dick thinking this unicorn is some asexual creature.
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helpfulguy22 1y ago
I mean if I pop her cherry that’s one way to actually know if she was lying about being a virgin or not. But how can I even possibly find out if she did other stuff like oral sex, what behaviours can I watch out for?
sdfger5tf 1y ago
First of all popping the cherry isn't even a guaranteed metric a girl can break her hymen by inserting a tampon or even doing exercise so it's quite easy to lie about.
As for is she's done oral you don't unless she tells you.
As for behaviour it can range from very subtle things such as her mannerisms to very obvious things like her straight up telling you the best thing you can do is not to judge her or in anyway when talking about sex or partners in a way which might shame her or make her feel bad about. This is because she will try to mask it and cover it up from you. If the topic comes up just act casual and don't make any sort of a deal out of it this way she will be more open about and you can gain more incite.
You just need to vet for several months to see what she's really like the longer you spend with her the more she will reveal as she will become more comfortable around you she might not tell you directly but through speaking to her and getting to know her you will be able to know what sort of person she is. People are products of there environment so if she's been around the block it will become apparent just need time to pick up the signs also trust your gut instinct it's usually right.
redhawkes 2 1y ago
Easy, get drunk, start talking about your sexapades, then don't judge when she starts talking.
Usually, those things "don't count".
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
anyone that asks for dm and wants to set up a fight is automatically downvoted, because they are so retarded that they cannot be saved.
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Bro I was having some fun with the troll that always downvotes me, learn to take a joke.
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
ok, learn to take a downvote.
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
is that you TryintToRetard?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
No, this isn't @TryingToRetaliate but I can see the confusion
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
You know the difference between a shitty joke and a serious comment on the Internet?
There isn't one.
You're making jokes to people who not only don't know you, but might not share your sense of humor or what acceptable forms of public conduct are.
If you wouldn't say it to a drunk stranger, don't say it here
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Username checks out.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
Get over it.
Have another downvote since you're here.
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
What do you think would happen if you walked into a bar, started insulting the regulars and then threatened them?
You'd get 'downvoted'. Forums aren't that different.
User4566 1y ago
See how good in bed she is. I fucked an inexperienced chick and she didn’t know what I meant when I told her “spread em”. She told me she only had sex with one other guy in her life and I believe her because the sex with pretty underwhelming on her part.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
It's me. I'm downvoting you. Do something.
In all seriousness, your tantrum is not only incredibly dangerous, but immature as fuck. Grow up.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
@helpfulguy22
Sadly complaining about downvotes is how you get more downvotes.
You probably might not be at any downvotes on this post (net positive or neutral) if you hadn't added that edit.
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Ya bro I don’t care, I knew putting that edit would cause more replies which would cause more engagement for people to reply to my actual question, and look it worked.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
What was the net benefit to your profile by doing that?
Short term engagement? Okay.
Anyhow, my AskTRP post isn't aimed at you. I meant to make it when @TryingToRetaliate asked this a week ago
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Brother I know you aren’t calling me immature when you the first one to downvote all my posts regardless of the content.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
I'm absolutely calling you immature.
What type of clown gets so bent out of shape over strangers on the Internet pressing the down arrow that he wants to fight them?
Have another downvote btw.
helpfulguy22 1y ago
Lol bro if you see my replies you can tell I was just joking. But since you wanna act all serious if we truly were face to face I guarantee you wouldn’t have the same energy.
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
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helpfulguy22 1y ago
LOOOOOOL IM DEAAD
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
She either hasn't hit puberty yet, or she used to be a dude.
Even then, innocence is questionable.
Seagram7 1y ago
You are unicorn hunting and a unicorn is a mythic animal that DOES NOT EXIST. Especially in our modern society and degenerate Weimer Republic culture. Even if she is from a wholesome religious family with a great Dad, there is too much media and peer influence to keep girls from feeding their most feral impulses.
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
She isn't.
You're welcome.