I forgot the name of it, but its one of the top recommended ones for Red Pill dating.

I remember a big concept of the book was being a "rock in her storm"... if this rings any bells, does anyone know what it is?

For some context, I have been on an insane journey of self-improvement, and I am 100% sure Im what the internet considers a "high value male".. The thing is that I have been a fuckboi and had lots of casual sex... Im turning 28 soon and I really want to start looking for a wifey, or at least a serious LTR of a few years for personal reasons (not societal pressures). My last LTR I was a bit too "alpha".. this was told to me from self-reflection and feedback. I want to learn to be an ELITE boyfriend. I genuinely enjoyed and get more fulfillment from LTR more than casual sex, at this point. To me, I think truly high value men my age are in relationships with high value women, and their friends are completely envious of this guy. Compared to just being an attractive plate spinner (me).

Sometimes on social media or in real life I will encounter a couple and recognize a guy is being a good boyfriend (high value, not "nice").. and I have similar traits. But I think im still a player to some degree and its ingrained in me, I feel they are someway more polished than me in a BP type of way, but i cant put my finger on it.

I would like to try to reprogram myself into a more high value partner (RMV). I feel that generally my SMV journey is capped for now (100% effort is being put into SMV but not RMV).

Thanks.