Hi guys I’ll try keep this short. Been on TRP since 2019. I’m fit, a model, 6ft and to be honest I’d say I’m 9/10 looks wise, anyways I’ve had my fair share of girls probably fucked more than 25 girls since 2020 I’d say 7/10+ for all. Okay done with me so usually when I meet a girl I don’t really attach emotions to it, I either lie/manipulate and act like we’ll be ltr or some just know that this is for sex. This year July I get a like on IG on my photo from a girl and I end up following the account and dm. August we go on first date I setup and yeah I find out this girl has ALL the qualities I’ve ever wanted in a woman and I mean ALL guys. I’ve been so picky my whole life for a ltr potential and now when I found the only woman who’s ever qualified I’m panicking. She’s had a crush on me since last year and I only saw her now in July on IG and she keeps pressuring me for a ltr, it’s not that I don’t want one with her it’s that I’m not in the right place for a ltr and that was fully revealed as we went on more dates etc. she’s a last born and probably the wealthiest person I personally know, she’s extra extra pampered. I can’t take care of someone on that level, especially since I’m almost done studying and working at the same time half my money just goes to her (Uber, dates, food). She says she’ll only loosen up when she’s a gf, otherwise she doesn’t believe the things I want her to be doing (cooking, fucking, cleaning, spending on me too, etc.) are for people who are unsure about what they’re doing together, she want’s commitment from me, I don’t blame her. She claims she’s never dated and she was a virgin. we have fucked twice but both were not so great bc she kept complaining it’s sore and I basically fucked with only half my dick in you could say and both times we were really tipsy from wine and I did kino and landed. My problem is how will I ever find someone that ticks all these boxes and requirements of mine if I let her go. Idk if I should ltr her or just be honest with myself and move on and fix myself in all aspects and hope for the best in the future.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago Stickied
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dongking 1y ago
This is a problem:
Why have you lost frame so much and already beta buxxing so early? You've known her for like 2 months and only (half) fucked twice. That is a bad sign my friend.
Just because she's wealthy doesn't mean YOU have to spend money on her. Quite the opposite, if you had played this right she would've been spending on you.
Also 2 months is, in my opinion, way too early to LTR a girl. I normally vet an LTR for atleast 6-8 months and sometimes even 12 months before I upgrade her.
So all in all, it seems you have gone way too far in her frame already instead of taking her into yours. It can be difficult to save at this point.
Read this guide here: https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/3524/humansockpuppet_s_guide_to_managing_your_bitches
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
That’s my favorite guide on redpill tbh.
T1Snipes 1y ago
Thanks man, I guess I’ll just soft next and keep fucking hoes. I’ve just been tired of meaningless sex and always having to go through chatting up a new woman. But let me keep focusing on my mind, finances and physique. Thank you guys for the hard truth I was slowly slipping away.
dongking 1y ago
Its fine to LTR someone once in awhile, if you like her. But it should be on your terms, and she should be in your frame.
T1Snipes 1y ago
Yeah after seeing her yesterday I did re-enforce that we’re dating and taking things slow, she keeps subtly shit testing me by pressuring a official ltr but I made her understand how it’s going to be. She’s just scared I’ll leave her which she told me is her biggest fear and it’s even more tingling for her bc now she doesn’t have that security and ease of mind of a ltr she says which I can also understand but she just has to wait and keep doing good and overtime maybe it’ll get there.
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
you got infected with oneitis
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T1Snipes 1y ago
Definitely true, in this break that I’ve been on from women, clubbing, feeble time wasters and negativity it’s made me become softer I’d say as I continue to forgive myself for alot of baggage and past that I carry, since I’ve always been emotionless bc of past abuse growing up it’s like now I want to allow myself to experience more and not be such a hard and hot head on myself and the people around me. But I hear what you’re saying I shouldn’t let this change in mindset soften me up so much that I forget how to hold frame, even towards myself.
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T1Snipes 1y ago
I’m 23 almost 24, I had been on a long journey working on myself staying away from girls and porn this year until she came around hut otherwise she knows how serious and tedious my degree is and she gives me the space and time/
T1Snipes 1y ago
Update: yesterday after reading the bitch management thread, I invited her over since it had been like 2 weeks without seeing her anyways we ended up having sex twice and properly this time (as in I went in the whole way without much complaints) and I was satisfied but she wasn’t really satisfied although we took things a bit slow but harder and tried about 3 different positions I like (that usually satisfy both people) but to no avail she was not satisfied she claims, although throughout she never dried up and wanted to pee a lot at times so idk actually if this is a mind fuck or if she’s really not satisfied and I must step it up to more rough dominant sex, and she’s willing to take it up to that tier but still acting in the shy innocence that she’s putting on but she’s letting me lead it there so I won’t hesitate. It’s just weird though this has never happened with anyone I’ve fucked and her body is saying otherwise to her words, imma have to read sex god method again for this.. And yeah I think I’ll leave this in the “friends with benefits” stage and keep vetting and I’ll have to get a rotation going again. Thanks once again for bringing me back to ground with reality.
ExConvictNowMillionaire 1y ago
I'd like to recommend you the book "Sex God Method". Just switching up positions doesn't do much for a girl. DEVI does - Dominance, Emotion, Variation & Immersion Master those skills and you can make a woman orgasm within the first minute of intercourse
dongking 1y ago
Sounds very unlikely she's a virgin. I've had a couple and they've been very timid.
Unless you're actively pressuring her if she's satisfied or not, which I hope you do not. Care less about it and more (only) about your own pleasure.
If she's one of the very few women who believes in tit for tat when it comes to orgasms/sex, I'd literally hard next her. Can't really think of a more annoying trait in a woman.
T1Snipes 1y ago
I never asked her, she just brought it up afterwards so I said we’ll try something different next time and see how that goes.
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Frame is still off. Im guessing she's acting up because of a lack of leadership and holding frame on your part. You're taking her too seriously and she pushes to see how and in which ways she can stretch you.
If she brings up not being satisfied, you dont take her seriously, but instead tell her that she will never get enough of your cock, slap her ass and go on.