Recently asked a question about logistics and snapchat seems to be the way of talking with girls in university. My university had homecoming on the weekend so me and my friends went to the street party where there was a few thousand students.
Here we gamed a few groups, I got around 12 snapchats so I felt in my zone during this time. One girl was the one to ask me for my snapchat and also asked for a goodbye kiss before she left so we quickly made out.
I've snapped these girls for 1-2 days and tried to set up logistics, some were busy and others suggested alternate dates. How do you go about girls that are constantly unavailable for plans? Some responses to plans were like "maybe", so how true is "if it's not a fuck yes, then its a no" in these cases?
Do I remove them from snapchat and cut the losses or keep them and don't try to set up any plans unless they reach out during nights after clubs/bars when they are horny?
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
constantly unavailable means not interested.
if she suggests alternative plans, you have to retaliate a little bit. basically if you have to compomise then she also has to compromise, or you lose your perceived value.
"How about Wednesday instead" / "Ok, but now you have to buy the first round of drinks".
They will never reach out. Women are lazy and have other opportunities, they prefer certainty over unknowns, they hate rejection, they don't make effort.
Basically fade them out....... if it doesn't work in week one, try week two...... after that give it up unless you've got some solid reason to think there is a connection there that they care about.
You might remember a cute girl from two weeks ago......... if she was going to remember you then she'd agree to meet with you in a week or less.
Be flexible, be reasonable, make efforts, but give up on them after a week...... close them out with "ok, this isn't happening, see you around". This will loop 10% of them back in, the rest will say "fuck you" or block you, and that's fine too.
universitythrowaway 1y ago
ok i'll try this. @dongking any advice on if you keep snapping her or just don't snap her for a week or two when soft texting? over text you can just not text her, but on snap if she sends snaps do you just not reply?
dongking 1y ago
I mean it's quite obvious when she's interested. She'll be hot. Ping pong chats n snaps all the time.
And most importantly she'll be down to meet.
I send out a mass-snap every now and then to 20-30 girls that are medium to cold in interest.
i.e. a shirtless gym pic, something witty or when I'm doing something cool. Then pick it up with whoever responds with good interest.
It's very low investment and has given me good results.
universitythrowaway 1y ago
sounds good, thanks.
do you snap with these girls every day when you mean ping pong or just the ones that seem interested?
when i snap girls they normally snap back and i can ping pong in that sense, but i need to gauge the interest better
dongking 1y ago
Only that ones that are high interest. The others get that random mass-snap every now n then, kinda like a lead funnel.
another_random_roll 1y ago
Would it makes sense to try and set up logistics at the moment before you get her contacts and not after? In this case you won't even get the snap of a girl who isn't at least hypothetically interested
universitythrowaway 1y ago
you're right, normally during daygame i try to set up something or say "lets hang out sometime" before getting her snap, but I didn't do that during the street party