At this point i went from depressed incel to depressed chad, my resting face is sad and I'm ashamed, also i don't know if i would be able to kiss or fuck because i have low libido
Got about 50 matches on tinder when i used better pics, i have 3 numbers from night game and new girls staring anyway but I'm stuck, I'm ashamed of my depression, low libido, apartment without forniture, shitty pizza delivery job
I know an illegal immigrant who fucked 3 girls in 4 months, one of them is italian very hot and rich, he dosent even speak italian yet he did it anyway, sometimes he sleeps on the street
He can be deported any time and doesn't give a fuck, meeting him changed my life but i don't know how to stop over thinking and beign depressed
Gilles 2 months ago
It doesn't matter what you write. Just ask them out. It's even beneficial if you make a "plain" attempt - it shows you don't care too much. If she's interested, then she'll go out with you. She will make it easy. The important thing is not what you write, but how you react if she says no. In that case you should acknowledge that you did a good try, that you had the balls to do it, and then move on like nothing happened.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2 months ago
Why don't you bartend or do Uber or Lyft or something that makes more. Or get a warehouse job or something that might pay more
Congrats on the increase of success but this is why guys in here keep telling you to fix your life first. You'll get women and then all of a sudden the rest of your life is still something that needs repair
Taproot88 2 months ago
and i dont know how to fix low libido from depression, imagine i kiss a girl 10 years in the making and fail to get excited
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2 months ago
Fix your depression. Your life. As described, sounds depressing af
I'm not just a talking about the not having women
Definitely a better job, I have suggestions, but start today
Taproot88 2 months ago
how did you fix low libido from bipolar meds IF you have bipolar?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2 months ago
I have Seroquel (12mg) and Lamictal (75mg)
I'm not on much because I've worked down them. I was on 400mg of Seroquel at one point and 300mg of Lamictal
Neither really affected my libido per se but idk what meds you're on and what dose or what other shit (like low self esteem, late nights. Etc) are also doing to your libido
Taproot88 2 months ago
i take 300mg wellbutrin and 1g depakote, but regardless of meds bipolar itself kills libido and arousel, i hear talking about having plates etc how did you fix it?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2 months ago
1 gram of anticonvulsant. Jesus. That's basically what my Lamictal is. Yeah that's gonna fuck with your libido. Also you're on Wellbutrin which is an NDRI which should make you more alert if anything.
Your other libido is probably fucked from depakote
Either way depression will fuck with libido. I used to be depressed all the time
I don't agree with your bipolar has low libido, that wildly not aligned with actual descriptions of bipolar disorder. You're conflating being depressed 24/7 with bipolar not having libido.
I have a small manic flow most of the time and I'm always wanting sex. Any time i fuck a chick like 5-6 times in one day she begs me for no more sex lol
If you weren't always depressed you'd have a higher libido than normal from bipolar. You need to fix the shit making you depressed
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I stopped being depressed when I started fixing my life and getting healthier and figuring out how to talk to women and letting go of my anger
Taproot88 2 months ago
If you know bipolar you know we can't be depressed 24/7, that's unipolar depression, not bipolar, i have bipolar 2 so it's a lot of depression + mixed states. Yes i take 1g depakote but you can't say it's a lot, some people take up to 2.5g, it's a stabilizer that can't affect libido. You can't compare molecules, 75mg of lamital might be equivalent in the body of 2g depakote, to compare them you should compare the chemical structure not the dose. Anyway if you have bipolar it seems you have bipolar 1. Honestly i still have some doubts.
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Testme 2 months ago
Your text does not really match the title. I will assume the title is the question you are asking.
First of all: read the sidebar and RP books. You obviously haven't done that, so that is the main problem.
Secondly, don't "ask girls out". Just act where you are. I have (amost with maybe one exception) NEVER asked a girl out in my life (successfully). Every single girl I have screwed or had a relationship with, it started right then and there wherever it was. In the bar, in the bathroom, in the office, in the library, in the classroom. Wherever. It always happens right there. So, if you are in a bar with a girl don't freakin "ask her out", either move her to a different, more cosy place, or just kiss her right there in the bar. I remember one girl, she's yakking her head off in the bar (obvious IOI) and I am thinking "How can I get her to shut up?" so I just leaned over and kissed her and she grabs her purse and says "Let's go" and 15 minutes later we were screwing in my apartment. Does that clarify things for you?
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Testme 2 months ago
I just gave a single example. There are books on the subject. There is a whole book called "Day game nitro" that goes into it. I don't want to write a book here. The principle is simple: don't postpone action until some mythical future "date".
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Testme 2 months ago
I try to evoke a physical IOI which I will reciprocate without fail. I will continue escalating until either I get a refusal or I sense I have reached her chastity limit, then I will deliberately part ways with her. When I leave I will always create an implication one way or another that she has the option of coming with me. At that point, assuming I have been successful she will either want to come with me, or she will ask for my contact information.
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Testme 2 months ago
If she is coming with me, then I am definitely not going to work. If I was on my way home, then I would stop by somewhere else on the way home that would be more suitable.
Taproot88 2 months ago
No, it doesn't clarify anything.
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Taproot88 2 months ago
You don't understand, you can't insta pull every girl, i have from girls i should ask out
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