Holding eye contact feel quite uncomfortabel to me. Are there any ways to improve that?
Also, I am asking for general advice on that topic. It is not just about eye contact with women, I would also like to improve it in situations such as heated discussions at work (and similar situations).
coolsocks00 1 1y ago
Just do it more. Start with the easiest and progress gradually.
Can expect to master it in something like this order: family members-friends-random people-arguments and hotties
User4566 1y ago
I sometimes look in between their eyes. I also would look into their eyes but I’d break contact every like 7 seconds and then go back to it. Conversations get awkward quick when it looks like you’re staring into their soul.
Talk to people in general and pay attention to eye contact. Cashiers are a great start, they have to look and talk to you for a bit. Maybe ask people at the front desk when the gym closes. Ask someone on the street for directions. It’s something that isn’t intricate, you’re just not comfortable with eye contact so you need to kind of get used to it for a bit much like any other skill.
timmytaliban 1y ago
A simple trick is to follow this triangle pattern; look at their right ear, then chin, and then the left ear. It will look like your maintaining eye contact short of actually looking them in the eye.
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
Boxing, you learn to hold eye contact during "hot" confrontation