I struggle with niceness when opening a girl. My blue pill conditioning was reinforced growing up at home(single working mom, two older whore sisters, and my grandma), school and everyone I befriended.

I tend to subconsciously force myself to be nice when opening women. The niceness takes away from my manhood and masculinity. I live in a very harsh society to begin with. Everyone here has mental health issues, which give me anxiety to interact with anyone.

I literally saw a guy the other day on a Vespa, who said something to a girl very quickly while passing by her. She literally kept looking at him driving away. He looked back to check her reaction, and she was smiling and waved at him. He stopped in the middle of the street with his friends who were riding other Vespas then he (weirdly) sent his friends to go tell her something. I assume they wanted her to come with them on one of the Vespas, but she refused, and they drove off. The guy was ordinary looking, with a full beard and head full of hair. Nothing special. His demeanor is what stood out. Masculine and bold..

I’m still deeply conditioned that I MUST be nice when opening women and approaching them to get a positive reaction. Even though I approached a few girls yesterday in different locations and all of them reacted neutrally to me opening them with a slight smirk or neutral face.

I was raised my whole life to please women, even though women DESPISE men who please them. They LOVE the guy who treats them like shit or at least like a normal human.

Any anecdotal experience with this issue?Suggestions?