Most of the time I don't feel great but occasionally I get into a state where I can come across as extremely confident. I was talking to an attractive employee at a sandwich shop for a complimentary cup, but something about the way I was talking to her and my facial expressions seemed to be extremely seductive to her. I did not proceed the conversation further than just asking her for what I needed.
I see 2 ways of going about it
1) Ask her "When are you off work?"
A) Tell her I'll meet her here when she's off
B) Ask her for her phone number and manually enter it myself into my phone Not sure what I would tell her is the reason if she asks "We're going to get to know each other" "We're going to have some fun together" "You look like a smart girl you can figure it out"
2) Eat my food Write my number on something and give it to her and tell her she'll be needing this when she's off her shift?
Are either of these options good? Then just keep having small talk with seductive energy and then fuck her right away in the car/her place while she still seems highly influenced by my energy?
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I’ve banged the staff before.
Go in again and be a bit more flirty. Gradually steer the convo towards something amongst the lines of “so what are you getting into tonight/this weekend”.
She’ll reply with whatever boring ass answer; that’s when you say something like “wow that sounds really boring; you should come grab drinks with me instead”. If you make her pussy tingle she’ll get excited as fuck and then you just ask for the number.
Also last note as she is on the clock; try to avoid having this convo while other customers are in line
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
"when are you off work"
This will only work if she's completely sold, otherwise she'll come straight back with "why, what do you want?" or make excuses.
"Tell her I'll meet her here when she's off"
I wouldn't put it like that.
Err..... this is getting weird.
You want a plan before the contacts exchange.
weak
You are inexperienced and this is causing you to overplan without knowing what you're doing.
Here's a good template for you:
"Hey.... you seem fun...... here's a crazy idea..... let's get a drink when you get out of work today"
Swapping numbers is a good idea..... but she'll hate to be seen doing it in front of her friends and coworkers....... so it's best IN THIS SITUATION to scribble yours down..... this way she can let you know if she changes her mind or wants details or comfort etc.
You are a long way from sex progression, get girls out on dates FIRST.
But the rough plan is: isolate, touch, kiss, bail to a private location. But it never runs this smoothly, so get used to the process.