I have this weird thing, sometimes it's easier for me to approach a girl that didn't give me eye contact, or better girls who gave me eye contact whith a smiling facem which happened this saturday, she noticed i was looking at her and had a smiling face, once i approach her reaction was like "i knew you were gonna do it" and was very positive and not bitchy
now there's another petite girl with tattooes i didn't approach, this girl looked at me in several occasions, in the cue outside, while buying drinks, but she was not smiling and i felt approach anxiety and didnt approach
i don't don't whats going on, she wasent smiling but hadn't a bitchy face either, it's not not be super smily and upbeat every weekend
the truth is i'm a pussy in this case because i'm scared if i approach her she will think something like "i knew this dork would approach just because i looked at him", this dosent happened with girls smiling
what do you think?
mattyanon Admin about a week ago
I think you care too much what other people think and what other people MIGHT think
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TryingToReform about a week ago
I think it takes balls to approach and take what you desire. It doesn’t make you some kind of simp or bitch, infact it makes you stand out from guys who will admire her but quickly look away once eye contact is made and never approach at all.
If you can train yourself to always instantly approach when an IOI is made; you’ll Fucking kill it bro.
Also - rejection is funny. That dumb bitch doesn’t know what she just missed out on ;)
Vermillion-Rx Admin about a week ago
Some girls aren't smiling when they keep looking at you because they are just scanning. Maybe they also have low self esteem
Or they could be staring for another reason.
You won't know till you approach. Non smiling double takes aren't necessarily an IOI. I look at certain people on repeat to people watch some times
I think you're overthinking it and it's not even necessarily an ioi. You won't know till you approach
Saucegod about a week ago
I believe one’s intuition is correct almost every time. If you intuitively think someone is purposefully creeping on you after catching them staring even once, you are probably right.(Had this happen many times) Even If you see a girl do a double take with a neutral face, you can tell by the eyes if there is lust/attraction/interest or just curiosity/you have a distinct look.
Trust your gut and stop doubting yourself. But first, you have to be mindful and stop worrying what people think/might think of you. Meditation will help with this.
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