I have read conflicting advice about whether to call women out or not. I have called women out, but it generally goes pretty badly. The three main areas where I find myself calling them out:
1) When they test me 2) When they exhibit hypergamous behavior, like kissing up to boy toys when they are married, for example 3) When they exhibit mate seeking behavior, like "going out with the girls" when they are in their follicular phase
So, some psychology texts say the correct reaction to game playing is to the call them out and confront them with the fact that they are playing a game. However, usually what happens is that they (A) deny it, (B) call me "delusional", (C) get angry and defensive. So, the question is whether it is just a bad idea to call them out at all, or whether getting them angry is Ok, or I am just doing it wrong, or what.

Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago Stickied
Did you actually read the Sidebar
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User4566 3y ago
I could have sworn it is in the sidebar. Basically, never argue with women.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
Yes...
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/160b5u/woman_the_most_responsible_teenager_in_the_house/
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2pb4fs/everything_you_need_to_know_about_shit_tests/
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/22qnmk/newbies_read_this_the_definitive_guide_to_shit/
https://www.trp.red/p/whisper/772
https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2n3gxr/48_days_of_power_full_list_for_sidebar/
And then not in the sidebar but should be:
https://www.forums.red/p/theredpill/220933/talking_with_women_always_dare_never_deer
https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/12/frame/
Any number of these should have given you an idea of why you don't outright call out women unless absolutely necessary, which by then you've already lost the plot
I don't think you read the side bar nor read it very well as indicated in a lot of your questions
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User4566 3y ago
Never call out women unless it’s teasing.
A few days ago, I was with a group of chicks on campus and one of them started asking me a bunch of specifically detailed questions. I asked her if she had a check list for me to which she replied “no, you’re too old for me”. I’m 23 and she was like 19. Instead of getting upset, I ignored it and talked to other people in the room.
Calling women out on their bullshit will never work. They will always think of an excuse.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Exactly. They are responsibility avoidance creatures.
User4566 3y ago
I would be aswell if everyone catered to me like a baby 24/7.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
This. I only call out women when I've decided I am done with them.
As in, past the point of wanting to reconcile. I know i don't owe them closure but sometimes I get satisfaction from mic dropping what they did to lose me
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User4566 3y ago
I gave her a funny look like “wtf? Too old for what, exactly?” Before simply dropping it. She looked visibly in defense mode when I did sort of call out her check listing me so I just dropped it. I didn’t even like her; we were all talking as friends.
Edit: me crushing her ego is straight ignoring her entirely as if she’s not in the room.
Gilles 3y ago
This is equivalent to discussing redpill principles with women. It will only make them hostile and you stand to gain nothing. It is a waste of time.
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MovinCruisin 3y ago
They will deny and continue to play their game anyway. Literally a waste of time.
EmpireCrimson 3y ago
How much time do you have to waste? My parents were married nearly 47 years. I wondered why my father wouldn't call my mother out on all of her bullshit. He'd just get up and leave after a while. I thought he was being soft. Now I'm married for over 10 years and I behave the same way - he wasn't being soft, he was being smart - you're applying logic in a situation where there is none. With notable exceptions, it's almost never a good use of your time.
Rustrike 3y ago
A wise Russian saying: "Arguing with a woman is like shearing a pig. Lots of noise and completely useless."
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
You're doing it wrong.
They have the social advantage and they know it. They know how to defend themselves, which is usually to attack you - knowing that everyone will jump in on their side.
The trick is to understand their games and laugh at them rather than calling them on it. Calling people out on their tricks is generally a weak move.