I feel like it's linked to my body and mind.
I feel ashamed on a social level. I never talk to anyone, really. Unless it's work or someone I've known a few years.
I can't find it in me to approach anyone because a few times I did it they just straight up ignored me. Or I found I had nothing to say.
There seems to be a mental block or a lack of thoughts in my head. I can make surface level "How are you" conversation but going beyond that feels impossible.
I also feel that I genuinely lack interest in others.
I hear people talk all around me and I feel like they just got something I don't. I don't understand it.
It goes like this sometimes, sometimes I'm much better and can be social but those moments are far and few between.
There's also a thing where I can approach people if my friends are around and spectating. It's a weird phenomenon. Suddenly confidence around people I know.
Any advice, please?
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Dude. You're in a post breakup pit with a woman that ended up being crazy.
This happened to me too when an NPD bitch falsely accused me and got me kicked out of not only one but two groups by lying and riling up her white knights and possible other fling against me.
I was becoming a jaded black-pill nihilist: post and always drinking myself to death and shit after this happened and no one was responding well to me in my life
Then i went one night and I wasike fuck it I'm fucking tired of being miserable and I did my best to breathe and let the energy of the music and the presence of my friends flood me with warmth and energizing vibes. My shit immediately turned around that night
I've found myself in another bit of a lul again actually and I'm just rinsing and repeating the same trying to clear my head and cast better energy into the world because I'm hitting another snag again after recent events piling up. So far so good my energy has been a lot better as have people's engagement towards me
It's all about the vibes you cast out. You're hurting and it's the same energy someone would get if a sick and diseased animal walked up to them
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
This kinda effect happens to everyone once you get out of an LTR esp if you got dumped by the broad. The more attached you were the harder it is. Happened to me too. The drinking and the feeling miserable. Feeling like you’re worthless. Music + friends got me out of the rut slowly but surely.
It’s normal. It’s fine to fall down every now and then.. what matters is whether you’re gonna let yourself stay down or if you’re gonna get back on your feet. Chin up buttercup these things build character and bring the DAWG out of ya.
The gym is always there for you when you’re down bad. Numb the pain w weights not booze and watch how fast bitches come out the woodworks to suck your cock. It gets better g trust
Dxmx99 1y ago
I can't disagree. The worse of it is almost over, I'm more angry than I am sad for now but I do find myself in sadness, still, quite a bit.
I don't necessarily show it, but I understand what I'm emitting.
Black pill.. I've been having more black pilled thoughts myself lately.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Yeah dude. Even if you just have to fake it just start emitting better energy and you'll get instant results
If you have to fake it just long enough for people to give you a positive feedback loop then so be it. Fake it till you make it