this lawyer chick just got me a flight to Miami for the weekend and booked a really expensive hotel.
she’s saying she wants to go and take me shopping.
recently divorced and I want to try and reap as many benefits as I can. how do I pull it off without giving myself away?
any genuine advice is appreciated; thanks in advance.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
This reminds me of when I went to a Rainbow gathering and stepped in shit. I mean you can clean your foot and do the gathering. Up to you. If it were me I'd get her pregnant and let her cuck some other dude. Not so easy nowadays with DNA tests... Jesus I am going to get so punished when Asia catches on to DNA tests... I came in so many chicks. Spread your seed. Receive her diseases.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I’m just trying to milk her for some free bandssss. Gonna try to get her to buy me some goyard bags n shit n maybe gimmie an allowance lmfao.
She is def being annoying already and I can tell she’s desperate to fill the lonely void that is the loss of her family lmfaoooo. Now I understand why they always say to avoid single women past the age of 30.
Basically spent an entire weekend w me and then tried to come over ln and again tonight. Sheesh.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
You have to understand that semen is an antidepressant. Married chicks like my wife get their regular dose and then when it stops they seek it out. Just blow a load in her and she'll be hooked for life. I blew so many loads in old chicks it's crazy. They really just want the antidepressant they were getting for 20 years and now it's gone. Anal absorption also works but ew.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
She’s on that x1000; told me she only fucked her husband like 10-20 times over the past 5 years.. sus asffff. But yea lately I’ve been nutting in bitches on occasion and it’s actually so hawt they like literally beg for it lmfaooo
whytehorse2021 1y ago
Yeah when I was like 22 and was fucking a 44yr old I blew loads in her. She was just using me for semen and as a dildo. Whatever. They get addicted and then you're on the hook. Trust me, I'm married and if I don't blow loads in my wife on the regular she gets all cranky and naggy. Anyway, gotta go blow a load in my wife. Later.
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
a physically attractive "sugar momma" that wants only sex from you is a myth - beware. sit down and think, what could she possibly stand to gain, other than dick?
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I’m getting the vibe that she’s tbh just lonely. Her ex husband was basically the epitome of a beta male (did all the cooking and cleaning in the house while she wore the pants). he told her kids why they got divorced (she cheated) and now her kids don’t want to see her/stay with her.
I will say she’s a bit dragging on my time; went to her place Friday night to smash and I slept over. we went to brunch in the am and then back to my place… she didn’t go home till like 7pmish.
What do you mean by like what she could stand to gain? Is she trying to baby trap me or something??
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
could be. you said yourself she's lonely, and (i'm assuming) she's got all other bases covered: income, house, etc.
there you go. my guess is she'll become needy and try to squeeze you for all the time and attention she can get, to simulate the familial harmony that she betrayed, until you will have had enough, at which point she'll move to another guy to latch on to, and so on in this manner; each new partner worse than the previous, because her looks are constantly diminishing.
any relationship with a woman is a net loss for the man. my advice is: minimize the loss, get what you want from her and don't pay extra - don't lose any more time with her than necessary, i.e. meet up at her place so that you don't have to persuade her to leave, and could just dash as soon as you get your rocks off.
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
also, remember that a second of your time is worth infinitely more than any Louis V trinket she could possibly gift you.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
I see what ya mean now. Def seems to be the case w her and it’s shitty cause I’m taking all major classes rn and the workload is absolutely enormous.
And spot on w the lv trinkets haha definitely nowhere near as valuable as landing a good job. Thanks king.
Sidenote you were right about the ex oneitis; left her on read and boom now she’s blowing me up. Still ignoring though
AbusiveFather1 1y ago
Good man. her attempts will get more desperate each time - hold fast. she will either abandon her crusade to manipulate you, or cave in to pressure and attempt to use sex to lure you in - a proposition which you absolutely can accept, and kick her to the curb right after; either way, a win-win situation for you, now that you're no longer her goon
edit: if she offers sex, discuss only logistics; no small talk/validation whatsoever.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
Update: yeah you’re spot on with the time wasting. She “forgot” her spare car keys at my place; tried to come over ln and I said she could come grab them but that I had to study. Now she’s trying to come grab them again tn and she just asked if she can stay and use my laptop charger bc she can’t find hers…. Smh
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
Pretty much exactly what’s going to happen. It annoys me so much that while I was with her I’d always try to encourage her to stay in and study/work on career instead of going out to party and now all of a sudden she’s trying to be that type of girl.
Edit: sorry for the vents lol
Gilles 1y ago
What do you mean pull it off without giving your self away? This is a high-perforning woman (lawyer) that knows what she is doing. She's going through a divorce and wants to use you as her fucktoy in the meantime. Apparently she also wants to spoil you, so just accept any gifts she wants to give. It's really that simple. She's experienced and won't catch feelings. Just game according to standard protocol and enjoy the ride until she eventually bails.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
like I’ve heard tales of dudes in these types of situations where the sugar momma buys them a car/pays their rent/gives them like 2-3k a month as an “allowance” lmfao. that would be a pretty sweeet deal if ya ask me.
one chick took my boy to LV and damn near bought him the whole frickin store. He ended up cutting it off bc she was saying she was in love w him n shit. but right not mine just my turn; guess I’ll just keep dicking her down and enjoy the goodies as long as it lasts haha
Acela_nextel 1y ago
This dude def gets a kick out of humblebragging, whether his tall tales are real or not.
financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
lol bro get a life honestly. you don’t have anything better to do with your time other than bitch about me “humblebragging” on any question I ask?
it was a genuine question and I kept it as brief as possible - first time I’ve ever found myself in this sort of situation. go hit the gym and work on your purpose; maybe you’ll find yourself in my position someday too.
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financehardo420 Should i (x1) 1y ago
hip hip hooray for improvement; I really am making an effort to avoid the humble brags and keep it as straight to point as possible brotha
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