Let me start by saying that I currently have 2 other plates so that isn't a problem, I just figured why not pick this one back up and add her to rotation because she's a good fuck. Long story short. This past situationship that I cut off and no contacted for 6 months and she tried to come back like a month after me cutting of, I didn’t respond. I got back into contact w her this week. How do you guys go about getting her back in the rotation? We’re acting as if we’re just on good terms with each other or “friends”.
She was flirting with me as soon as we started texting again. I flirted back and we both were busy so I stopped texting her Sunday. Should I just randomly hit her up and have flirty texts or be like “hey why don’t we catch up and have couple drinks”?
This is a girl who I know isn’t gf material I don't plan on doing any dates etc. What are your thoughts?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Sure, but don't ask questions, unless it is "Hey, is there a good reason why we shouldn't have drinks Sunday"
Notorious 1y ago
"Join me for drinks I'm at ABC bar"
even better if you're talking to other girls as she pulls up.
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
yep. Even better, make a phone call (do not text). Don't worry, she won't pick up (women are freaked out by real time convos). Leave her that message "join me for drinks I'm at AB bar - ciao" But make sure you go and stand next to a group of girls while you make the call. She'll hear the women shrieking and laughing in the background of your VM, and the hamster will do the rest for you.
FOMO, jealousy, social proof all in one. Remember, the one thing that makes women really unhappy is they thought of you being happy.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I really liked @Notorious response because that's basically what I did to fuck a plate I broke once
Really if you just act like nothing has changed and don't expend any different amount of effort as you did when they were previously in your rotation that is best
Trigger their memory congruence by acting as you did when you were fucking. I have an ex plate right now that I see around 1-2 times a week. I briefly re-plated her previously by doing that after breaking her (due to disrespect) and then she got a bf (which is whatever I mean plates are plates)
Despite her having a bf atm, I STILL treat her the same as when she was my plate and I get strong vibes if she broke up with her bf (which her literal twin keeps telling me she is unhappy with the guy) that she'd probably join my rotation again.
She keeps making sex comments like she did when she was my plate because my jokes and behaviors are still primarily congruent to when she was my former plate
Although I do lay off when her bf is around. I do respect him, he's always been kind to me even though she seems biased towards me over him. I follow bro code even though he's not my friend but I do flirt with her when he's not around
(That's a different debate) I'm just simply telling you act congruent to when you had her in rotation and she'll likely end up back in rotation. Treat her differently and she'll probably react differently
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I think I came across wrong in this post. I'm not trying to steal her at all. I just have a dynamic with her that hasn't changed. It's rare chemistry that I haven't had with anything other chicks
I've never once tried to steal her from him. When he's there I mostly don't pay any attention to her. Plus, she instigates the comments, not me. She's deciding to make such comments.
Anyhow I don't steal girls, it's just when she breaks up with him I'm gonna try to smash again, but I don't steal them from guys
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
Casual drinks. Don't make a date with her, just tell her where you'll be.