Reminds me of my friend calling me at 3am in the morning asking me to drive him 2h to another xity so he could fuck a chick, exlectinf em to wait in the car lolol.

How fucking thirsty do younhave to eb, are there no chicks nearby?

"I was working in a different state this summer and in the last 3 days I met a girl who I was fucking around with. We exchanged numbers and I was talking to her for a little bit. She told me to let her know if I was ever in her area.!"

So you haven't already fucked this girl? You're asking us if its ok to carry on orbiting her, making her phone go bing?

I had a FWB that lived in a different city than me. Part of why that one broke was over that. We got a bit too closer than we ought to have been and the distance was a logistical problem. There were things I liked about her that made it worth it compared to some more local women

I did meet up with her about 15-20 times and the drive was gorgeous so I didn't mind it much at all and she came to me about a third of the time (there were scheduling reasons for that)

If you do do it, just have better expectations about it. Different city means no spur of the moment plans vast majority of the time and other logistical headaches

A girl in a different city can still be good IF you really have nothing better to do on a specific night, want to get away from your town for the night, try new things, or want an option that won't be running into all of your other plates/FWB/prospects

It is awful if you desire quality consistency

Hit her up every so often. Just chat. Keep things light and flirty. Then when you're actually planning to go over there, say "Hey I'll be there XYZ. I'd love to catch up!"

Simple as that.

Do you want to do it? Then you should. Don't know how the dynamic between you and her, but it might come across as beta if you go there only to visit her. Preferably you would go there with other plans aswell. You said you have visited the city multiple times, so maybe you know some locals you can hit up

I know TRP usually says texting and facetime and shit should only be used for logistics / setting up a date but I think this situation is a little different when you're not going on frequent dates with someone.

Also, this is overly literal. Text for logistics is significantly outdated for women born after millennials and even with millennials

Don't take it overly literally in situations where a bit of conversation would actually get you more likely to get laid, build rapport, or plausible deniability

Often times like 5 non logistical fun texts between me and a chick will lead to plans. Being a "only text for logistics" mofo would be denying myself and a lot of other men some lays and skip-dating hangouts with chicks to bang