8/21/23, community college campus

1) Hb 6.5, cafeteria, no # Girl's busty and has on a semi-gothic attire which is a cross heavy shirt with no bra + cross chain. Got some bisexual vibes from her. She's sitting 2 tables in front of me. I opened by gesturing to her and asking if that's a new flavor (they re-did the 0 sugar can). Both smiling, I move over and we talk. She laughing a little and we go into topics such as fashion, thrifting and her major. It goes well and she's getting ready to leave. There's a pause, but I just asked for her #.

She says I can follow her IG. Me being uninterested in anything but what I want, I pressure flip the situation. I tell her to show me IG, market it to me and I'll evaluate it. She's talking about being put on the spot and I tease saying she's made to do this because she's a marketing major.

She IS hot and has a couple thotty pics up. Scroll for a few seconds and she says "see you like it." I say I'm undecided then ultimately shoot down her offer and she left.

2 Hb 6.5, library, no # Opened this girl by referencing her yeti sticker pasted on her laptop and my yeti mug. Something something I asked if she's made any friends yet.

her: no, I'm not here to make friends. I'm just here to pass my classes

She's not interested and I respond with something like "oh so you haven't met anyone like me before, guess that makes me special." I left.

3) Hb 5, hallway, # yes I feel a little bad about this one. I initially thought she was cuter. She's thin but that's it. I'm recruiting for a school club so I opened this girl by telling her she looks like a dancer. She declines being a dancer. More talk, about what she does (swims). I got some good teases in. Have her laughing a little, closed by saying we'll get coffee over the weekend. Added her name in my contacts and while eye fucking me, she said "text me" as I left. We've talked and texted since then, but I'm fading out because I can't see myself smashing a girl I'm not into even when her interest is strong.

Going forward: Writing these field reports for basic # closes has become tedious and time consuming. I'm ceasing from writing about introductory experiences because I no longer gain anything. Under my old system I'd feel compelled to write about most or all of my opens, and couldn't proceed until I'd have it recorded. I'm still going to keep track of my approach volume in Google sheets. (I'd like to know when I eventually hit 1000 opens and 100 #s).

We know I can cold approach and open anywhere. From Walmart aisles and parking lots to school hallways and outdoor sidewalks, the world is my oyster. Stopping this frees up time and memory. Now I can focus on more approaches while implementing theory.

I felt like I had to slow down until l I cranked out that field report. Writing less and living more presently may help subdue my overthinking which I've been notoriously known for on here. My next field report will probably be a date that ends with some kind of intimacy.

Thank you gentlemen.