21yo plate keeps going back and forth between "I really like you" and "I want to have fun my senior year and flirt with other guys." I said I'm cool with either decision and walked out her place. This has happened before, and every weekend she booty calls me at night. I'm so sick of hearing her hamster on about this shit. I told her I'm perfectly fine with seeing/fucking her and she can go flirt with other guys but she said she's not cool with that and considers that cheating (wtf?).
Is there a better way to go about this?
AbusiveFather1 2y ago
i don't see a problem as long as you're fucking her; just ignore her ramblings and keep doing your thing. when she doesn't hit you up for sex anymore and refuses to meet, that's when it becomes a problem and at the same time stops being a problem, or at least your problem - you move on and find another outlet.
all in all, listen to what she does, not what she says - textbook stuff (yes mods, i have read the sidebar).
No-Stress-Cat 2 2y ago
This is your problem. She's got you at her beck and call. You need to turn this around.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Is she trying to bait you into YOU being exclusive?
Notorious 2y ago
That's what it sounds like. There's been several conversations where she's telling me "I haven't slept with anyone else" in the last month...followed up by her saying "but you can do whatever you want." Some manipulative stuff for sure, she knows what she's doing.
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Durek_The_Bald 2y ago
How many other plates do you currently have?
redhawkes 2 2y ago
This sounds like a covert version of "what are we?".
Bitches generate shit like this when they are unable to read your investment levels. It's really retarded when the solipsism kicks in.
Unlike women, preselection doesn't work on men, it's the opposite. Keep smashing and play the broken record.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 2y ago
Mattyannon is on track
She knows she's a plate (no commitment).
She's a senior (graduation and life is coming up quickly). Real life, like having to work for a living, etc.
She wants more from you.
Way back when I was in University, same thing. Girls who played the field like crazy, would in senior year, stop playing field and want to get serious with a guy. But, only guys, who just happened to have money and/or studying in a field where he was going to make Bank.
Same shit, different Century
whytehorse2021 2y ago
She put herself in a precarious situation. She gives sex as a form of covert contract that it will result in a relationship. Yet she wants options, or a backup plan. We see this all the time. It's like the new female dating strategy.