Hello guys. Last year these times I was suffering over an ex. It was a hard case ONEITIS. In one year , I got over it and got my life together mostly. I focus most my energy to make money at these moment. My finances are ok now. I work as receptionist at night shift between 00.00 am until 8 am.This is only a seasonal job so I am applying for permanent jobs. Trying to have financial stability.. I have been with a few women and I can say I got my life together mostly.
The thing is , I am happy and I dont know how to deal with happiness. Pain, agony, an ex, or my ego was always the fuel of my life motivation and discipline but now that I am happy, I dont want to go to gym or socialise more. I gain a little bit of weight.
I know discipline is the answer but really dont have any wish to improve. I always pushed my limits when I am in depression or in painful times. I also think that working at night shift is also affecting my life about this motivation thing.
I want to lose weight to get healthy and my dream body. I was not a lazy person . But I just want to lay down all day.
AND THANK YOU FOR EVERYONE THAT GIVEN ME ADVICE LAST YEAR. TRUE BROTHERS.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Find improvement activities that resonate with your happiness
Or put it in your schedule
Gym at 5:30pm (or whatever time.). Go when your alarm goes off.
You should keep improving to solidify, rather than obtain happiness if you already have it
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
try running. do it every day for 30 minutes, rain or shine. You will find your strength coming back. Try it for 30 days and report back to us. Do it.