LTR 16 years (no ties, apart from a house mortgage) reserved sexually (she's quite a-sexual,thyroid, introverted, nice) she's ideal TRP wife material, tbh if you don't mind the lack of sex- low-maintenance, emotional intelligence basically will treat a man who's good to her like a KING (told me to go on a weekend drinking trip with buddies as I deserved it)

Always been a bit alpha yet was too much of a people pleaser at times (I just can't be fucked with drama, tbh. I try to avoid toxicity too) got sick in my 30s and when I was ill I seen how little people who I thought were best friends etc seemed to care ; started then really reading people - came naturally to a sense to TRP. Started noticing women, found seduction stuff then TRP and well ; too many of theories, post, experiences written on this board are happening to me so I believe most of TRP is legit!

So, I naturally don't want to hurt her too badly and would be willing to keep her as plate (also as we can figure out what to do with our housing scenario) or go on break from each other/see what's out there : so was wondering if this has ever been achieved. I don't want a poly, threesome etc or open relationship - my experiences with the very few people who engage in this lifestyle IRL, are, they are absolute shitshows emotionally, fuck that.

It'll be interesting to see how this goes though ; because her emotional intelligence about the sexes, human nature, the world etc is almost red pill (both her parents have re-married) yet if she she throws the toys and says it's either HER only or no relationship ; I have no problem walking away.

I'm not even trying with women and they are close or sniffing about. I've basically found abundance without even trying and even right now, the most exciting part about being 'free' isn't even chasing women ; it's getting shit done and doing it my own. I'm 40 too, but all I've done is slightly stop giving a fuck and somehow I've got friends from high school I've not spoke to in years contacting me or women who wouldn't even look me square in the eye are now submissively asking me for my guidance or validation.

So there's no going back really.