I am 30+ and I am looking to start a family, however I have not found any right women so far and I think I never will.
I cannot find a girl that is trustworthy and skilled enough to be able to run a family. I do enjoy spending time with girls who are total sluts, they are really fun to be around for leisure, but they are not suitable to start family with.
I am still thinking, but I am coming to a realization that the only way to start a family is not the traditional way. I will have to find a women with good genes and it does not matter if they could run a good family, it is just for good genes, impregnate them, live separate from her and just take care of the kid sporadically, just enough so I don't have to be ordered by court to pay child support.
At this point, I just want to have my own offsprings and don't have to deal with crappy women on my everyday life.
RiggzHatesYou 9mo ago
Clearly you haven't accepted women for what they are.
Lone_Ranger 1 9mo ago
your post currently sitting at -9 ....so you have your answer.
Einsamer 9mo ago
After reading your post, I think you should first find a lawyer that's trustworthy and have them explain to you what kind of legal situation you will get yourself into. You will be surprised and not in a positive way...
Vermillion-Rx Admin 9mo ago
This is the most retarded post I've seen in a while. Good luck getting fucked by the courts and getting saddled with all the baggage this strategy comes with and completely fucking your kid up for life doing this
I sincerely hope you never do this. This has to be trolling
financehardo420 9mo ago
I thought I was gonna see a groundbreaking loophole like get married in church but not on paper; keep a separate apartment for “wifey” so you don’t live together on paper.
Boom assets are for the most part protected and if you’re substantially higher income than the baby momma some states let you automatically claim full custody of the kids so you don’t even gotta worry about child care pmts
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financehardo420 9mo ago
As far as my understanding goes; ya you’re free to do that but if you live under same roof for 10 years you’re automatically legally married. So in theory keeping another apartment for wifey would be a loophole to that. But you’d miss out on all the tax benefits of MFJ
Durek_The_Bald 9mo ago
This is where your plan takes a nosedive. With a whore of a mom, and a distant, non-present, uninterested dad, your kids are going to be losers. Liabilities to both you, and society at large.
If you're ever going to be a father, you better understand that once they're off the boob, dad is by far the most important parental figure; the most determining factor as to whether they'll grow up to be well adjusted individuals or not.
Boys without present, influential dads become losers. Girls without present, influential dads become sluts.
throaaasd21 9mo ago
I would want to support financially and have very minimal involvement until the kid is 5, after that keep supporting financially + keep kicking the crap off the kid and teaching about the real world. Would that work?
Durek_The_Bald 9mo ago
Please tell me you're trolling, that you aren't actually this retarded.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 9mo ago
OP learned how the family court works from a bathroom stall it seems like
throaaasd21 9mo ago
Please explain more. Maybe I am wrong.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 9mo ago
That's it, I'm considering this trolling, that's your one and final warning
You can't possibly be this retarded
mattyanon Admin 9mo ago
Helping sporadically will not prevent court mandated child support.
Agree a co-parenting contract from the get-go.
ObliviousDuck 9mo ago
You think you are being clever, but as a feminist you assume that 1) men and women are the same and have the same goals and 2) that men have more rights than women when it is in fact the other way around.
Women decide the genes in their babies, women decide if the baby lives or not, women decide if the man has to pay for the baby even if its not his, and women decide if the man can even see the baby.
Now, fuck off.
Edit: Reading that again, you are a little bit too much on the nose to be a woman. However, the aforementioned problems makes your joke fall flat.
throaaasd21 9mo ago
That is true for ugly and poor men, not the other way around.
Lone_Ranger 1 9mo ago
downvoting because retarded. I am glad that OP will never reproduce.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 9mo ago
We all know he will, that's the problem
Lone_Ranger 1 9mo ago
I am fairly confident that he will not.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 9mo ago
I pray you are right, I fear you are not
Bulba 9mo ago
Seems like you're searching for marriage in the wrong country.
Move to a country where not many people are non-religious, and where the legal system isn't completely secular, or not secular at all. It's a good sign if LGBT rights are limited or not even recognized.
whytehorse2021 9mo ago
Did you check your friend-zone?
Lone_Ranger 1 9mo ago
this guy will have no friends, because retarded.
No-Stress-Cat 9mo ago
LMAO
whytehorse2021 9mo ago
What? That's where I found my wife...
No-Stress-Cat 9mo ago
Kudos to you, my man. I don't have any chicks in the friend zone. I got shit to do.
whytehorse2021 9mo ago
Bruh! I even got ladyboys in my friend-zone. Or is it FWB-zone?