Is there some TRP information/posts etc that talk about virginity?
Like, what is the con of still being a virgin and trying to get laid
And would it be beneficial to lose my virginity to a hooker in my mission to like.. consistently being able to get laid (I know you have to apply the othet trp stuff too, but what I mean is my virginity not like.. an obstacle?)
Or is it better to lose my virginity to a girl without paying her for it, what are the pros of this?
Or doesnt it matter at all, and does it only matter that I lose it so I can move foreward?
Weird question but hopefully you can take me serious lol
RedPirate751 2y ago
Don't see a hooker. Just accept that the first time you have sex, like the first time you do anything, will be a little awkward or whatever and that's fine. Its totally normal, a learning experience, and I don't think any normal woman would throw you out of bed over it.
Just focus on talking to women, getting out on dates, ect and worry about the sex part when you get to it. It might feel awkward the first time, but you're a man. Its not like you're going to have her naked and forget what you're supposed to do next or something!
miserabletogreat 2y ago
I once had a girl trying to stick my dick into her pussy and I refused, she was literally pulling my dick towards her pussy AND I FUkcignnfn refused
That gnaws at me now so that’s why I want to see a hooker so the next time something like that happens I don’t black out and don’t do jack shit
RedPirate751 2y ago
That's a dumb as shit reason to see a hooker. Sack up and get through your fears.
Paying a hooker won't remove the anxiety. Only accepting the anxiety and then facing it will remove it.
miserabletogreat 2y ago
Okay thanks, no hooker for me
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
As long as you don't make it known you're a virgin and you don't act like one and are desirable enough a woman will guaranteed want to fuck you
There is no benefit of being a virgin as a man. Some women have a virginity stealing kink in which case it will up your chances of getting laid but that's rare
When I was still a virgin at 18-19 I told a group of friends that my sex addict friend was friends with. They all wanted to fuck me. I could have fucked 7 chicks in a day if I wanted to because they all wanted to rob it from me
Again that kink is really unusual for women and I passed up the chance but it's out there
Beyond that kink just run game normally, lose it and then stop using the virgin label to hold yourself back for no reason
Whether you lose it to a hooker or not is your choice. It's not earned if that's what you're looking for. If you simply want to get over the bump a hooker is a personal choice but you'll never feel like you earned the lay and it will never fix your confidence that you can pull
miserabletogreat 2y ago
Bro, I had two amazing opportunities to lose it and I fucked it up so thats why I was looking at hookers, but fuck that I wont do that anymore
But I might be able to fix it with one girl, could you give me some advice to handle that situation? I will make a nee topic
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miserabletogreat 2y ago
I had a girl caring about me, I had her legs in the air and she looked at me lile what now.. (and like she was enthusiastic too), and I fucking didnt pull her pants down and just stick my dick into her
And no fuck fat girls, thanks for the reminder haha
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miserabletogreat 2y ago
Because I just blacked out, I mean it wouldnt matter if it didnt go as flexible, but I still had this “ideal” way in my head that it has to go as smooth as possible, and because this is my first time, it wouldnt, so I let it slide, and probably cuz I didnt have a condom with me and knowing my luck a mini me would be created there (I am always carrying one now though)
And no she wasnt fat, big ass though, nice tits
orbilius 2y ago
Depends on how old he is. If he’s 16 then it’s no big deal. Just learn some basic game and get a regular girl. If he’s 20 then being a virgin is kind of a problem. He’s competing against men who know their way around a woman. It’d be better at that point to get some experience. That’s my opinion.
OP: where I think that being a virgin is going to negatively affect you is two ways: first, you won’t be as relaxed and confident as a non-virgin. And I’m sure you know how important confidence is.
Second, you won’t have the general skills of being able to move a girl around and take charge and get shit done. No other way to learn that than by doing it.
In my opinion, a hooker is a good way to solve both those issues. Frankly, you can tell a hooker that you’re a virgin and you want to learn and she’ll probably take good care of you.
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miserabletogreat 2y ago
That’s what I was thinking too, if I think back about the first time I don’t want to think about paying for it
How did your first time go then
Thanks
AbusiveFather1 2y ago
it could be argued that this is not a contest, and our sexual relationships are a byproduct of our environment; if the life he lived led him to being a virgin at his age, should he be blamed for wanting to find out what women smell like? what if he gets hit by a car tomorrow - in his last moments, is he going to be proud that he didn't take the "easy" route, or is he going to feel regret? just food for thought.
edit: this of course shouldn't stop him from approaching "regular" women