As some of you from the main site may recall, I am moving to a new city next weekend. I've cut off all my plates and I won't be gaming/seeing anyone else in the interim as I don't have time.

I have one remaining "plate". Plate is a bit of a loose term here. A girl in the new city who I've met and fucked past 2 times I've visited.

Anyway, she's become very emotionally invested despite only meeting each other twice. Usually she contacts me every day and has done so consistently ever since I met her (~6 weeks). Whenever the conversation breaks she restarts it.

We already have logistics agreed. She enthusiastically invited me to an event the week after I move (~3 weeks time) and specifically said she wants to fuck. She tried to get me to go to a concert and stay at hers this weekend but I declined.

Past week things have started to die down. Conversation started getting a bit boring for my liking and we haven't spoken for a few days.

What's a good way to keep this girl ticking over for the next 3 weeks?

My usual play would be to wait until she reaches out. But given - this girl's high investment, long time until we meet and maybe a bit too much push (declining concert, leaving her on read multiple times, her always being the one to reach out) - I'm wondering if I need to give a bit of pull and keep in contact a bit more to keep her sweet.

I know this might come across as scarcity mentality - but if I can have an oven ready plate for when I move down, that would obviously be preferable. I'm going to have to build a whole new social circle and plate roster from scratch in the new city, so anything that helps with that would be beneficial.

Edit: Having thought about it, I'm way overthinking this. Logistics are in place. Either she reaches out or I text just prior to the event. If she flakes because of perceived lack of interest who gives a fuck. Abundance.

Although would still like to hear opinions.