Question- how do people spin more than two plates at once? What strategies can be employed?
I currently have a girl and another girl who expressed interest half a year ago asked me to hang out earlier today. I literally had to schedule her to next weekend (22 July) because I have exams next week
How do u guys cope with more than 2 plates? Im literally dying and i don't even know if mine consists of more than 1.2 plates given my slow ass pace of approach
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coolsocks00 1 2y ago
A plate is a chick you have sex with regularly. It's level 1. By common definition it means you dont spend time together outside of sex.
So if you have any leisure time at all during your week, that's time you can spend with a plate if you wish.
To spin more than a couple stable plates at once you will have to make some sacrifices, mainly time, to maintain it. Make sure it doesnt go out of hand and you start to make sacrifices you didnt intend to.
An essential aspect of plate management is managing expectations. You need to maintain high expectations of the girls, and keep them having low expectations of you, in regards to commitment, material value brought to the table, etc.
Get them addicted to your game and your dick. Get them to bring you food and facilitate better productivity or relaxation for you.
Have them come over when it suits you. Or often better yet, go to their place so you dont have to deal with any clean up.
Some initial investment, i.e. a great date or two, is to be expected early on, unless they're just club sluts.
Edit: to provide some more perspective, i can say that my circle of girls provides me with things such as free central parking, regularly free lunches/dinners and dates, help with chores, occasional gifts, free stay in a couple big cities, and of course the sex.
This abundance just builds itself as long as you stick to solid strategies. It's also safe to say it's no bed of roses, and requires some mental fortitude for dealing with women so much.
cjtakk 2y ago
Just like @coolsocks00 replied, its not hard to have many plates spinning at the same time. Although it is much harder to keep them around longer, as you can not satisfy all of them. The best thing about it is, that if your leisure time doesn't fit one of your plates schedule, you can always try to schedule with another plate. Besides after they fall for you, they will usually make sure to make time whenever it fits you.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 2y ago
I never could do more than 2 at a time, was just too time consuming for me.
my view, if you have abundance of girls, let the ones you have the most fun with stay around.
UnhappyAttemptori 2y ago
Ah, that's the first time I heard that sentiment echoed
I'm a longtime TRP lurker and the old sidebar on reddit made it sound like one had to have multiple plates to be considered competent (or something similar)
I never understood how that was achieved and am still equally mystified
Intrepid_Place53900 1 2y ago
for most guys, sure, more is better.
There's plenty of guys like me who were more about quality. It's like food, you want quantity or quality?