Two weeks I started "night game" for the first time, as i've advised here after my post about zero matches on tinder
I go to a small club, i only approach 6 girls, i recieve the numer from the last one She tried guess my age saying all kind of numbers 28, 23, 30, 25
I nodded at 25, didn't want to say my age, 35, I'm afraid of their reaction, i mean i can't just say "i was a depressed incel in my 20's not i want to get the 18/23 girls i missed on that's why I'm here"
So i text her on monday and end up finding out she just turned 17...and this girl was the one giving me the stronger eye contact through the night, so i thought she was 20 or something
The age of consent here is 14, i don't know what to do
Also i don't know what to do in this small club in general, most people know each other there, many girls give me eye contact
If i keep approaching they might spread the information

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gr8bollos 2y ago
I mean its legal....?
At that point youre just dealing with society shaming or judgment. Most of the time its all in your head and no one cares or is judging you.
In my opinion it shouldnt be a big deal as long as you dont look 45+ I think thats when people may judge you harder. Even then theyre just jealous or bluepilled as long as shes within legal age limit.
Edit: Im all for anti-shaming with this if its legal. I had a friend who was 32 and felt ashamed for dating a 19 year old, I laughed and said thats nothing. But were from the USA. If 14 was the legal age, and youre 35 I think thats kinda weird. I dont care how low age of consent is I think 17 is bare minimum for dating. 17 is basically 18. 14 is a whole world away from 18 imo. I grew up where age of consent is 18 however so 17 is similar, 14 is crazy.
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gr8bollos 2y ago
I saw your Tinder post awhile ago I thought you were in your 20's unless they were old photos. Surprised youre 35. So basically society wont even care or know at face value the age difference, you have no problems to deal with. Have fun with her, shes just entering her prime so people will hate on the age difference including your friends
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gr8bollos 2y ago
If you gets get semi serious and you decide to LTR, there will eventually be a point where you need to tell your age and meet family and stuff.
This is some ways away, but its not entirely out of the ordinary. Most girls are looking for LTR's
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Bozza 2 2y ago
Personally I wouldn't. 18 is my cut off.
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Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
that does sound too young, regardless of the law.
gr8bollos 2y ago
17 is basically 18. 14 is wild to me, i dont care if its legal. Im all against age shaming with dating I think a lot of it comes from jealous post-wall girls and betas.
But 14 just graduated middle school ffs. I wouldnt consider you a pedo if its legal but damn its getting real close.
I think my personal age limit would be 16 at the absolute bare minimum but much more likely 17. Im 26 though.
nicknack 2y ago
good for you and good luck closing
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Slay, just don't get attached. Classic lowkey game, text here and there, no dates, go for a drive, drinks outside, shit like that.
Young hoes fuck like rabbits.
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gr8bollos 2y ago
Arent you 35 ffs. Whats your reason for this?
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redhawkes 2 2y ago
That's why I said keep it lowkey. The age of consent in my country is 14 too, the only case I know when a bitch "fucked" over a guy is because she got the feelz and he didn't want to commit. Then, she made false accusations and the guy had to marry her lmao.
Im almost 30, but look waay younger, so I get the fuck me eyes on the regular from the younger hoes. Fucked 17yo when I was 28, banging body, strictly sex, threw herself at me. You gotta vet tho, younger hoes are retarded.
If you don't have a a car, go on a night walk, then escalate in park or invite her home.
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gr8bollos 2y ago
Im 26 hooked up with lots of 18 year olds. If you can attract an 18 year old you can attract a 17 year old.
I worked in a restaurant/bar with lots of 16-17 year old girls working the front. The 16 year old girls had a young aura about them but the 17 year old ones were basically 18 in appearance and behavior. I was basically their manager and Im pretty attractive so I can tell lots of them felt a way about me but I kept it professional. Some who turned 18 even invited me to their birthday parties (I think to fuck them) but I never went because i was 25 at the time and didnt wanna party with high school kids.
Many of them ended up turning 18 while we worked together and nothing changed. They were already physically developed and had adult personalities similar to freshmen in college.
I was in college at the time and the 17 year old girls had the same personalities as the 22 year old girls in my class. I think 17-23 is basically the same age. 14-16 is another. Theres a difference between each category of age as far as looks/personality
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Yea, it's basically women are the most responsible teenager in the house.
It's not like she's 17 and when she hits 18, she gets more mature overnight, it's just a law.
I've been DJing for more than 10 years, clubs/bars/festivals. Seen all kind of shit, and believe me, the 25+ hoes are no different than the 16-17 old. Same behavior and retardation. Just tease them and have fun. 30+ are different category, cos they've been thru some shit and are more or less damaged goods, but are as slutty as the younger ones.
The only issue is that if OP hangs around with younger chicks, he's probably going to get a lot of shit from their orbiters cos he's "stealing" their girls, older women in my experience, don't give too much of a fuck, actually, it's more probable to shame you if you go with older than you.
Maybe this changes with the age, and they get possessive when you're in your 40's but who gives a fuck anyways.
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Boosted_Arrow 2y ago
Tell her: "Yo baby, hit me up when uR 18 birthday"
I'd say if you choose to go back to that club, it might get risky of the reputation. But you can still keep lying with the age.
May I ask: did you go alone or with buddies?
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