Ive heard from many older men that when they started going grey, that women LOVED it. That its a sign of a mature manly masculine man. Or at least gives off that aura.
I genuinely cannot tell if part of it is cope, because i see a lot of that with people who talk about aging.
And i know its not all the same, some guys seem to really pull off the salt and pepper gray hair look and give off the silver fox vibe, other guys just look old with it. So i guess that plays a factor.
Personally for me I just turned 31 and the past month is the first time i noticed a lot of gray hairs. By no means would anyone consider my hair "old" as its still like 99% black still but theres like 20 gray hairs around my hairline. Im pretty sure its noticeable up close. Ive also been dating a few women who im sure have seen the white hairs, and i cant say i feel like its made any difference. No one has pointed them out to me,i dont have enough for it to warrant conversation lol, but i know you can see them. Yes, these girls are around 20-22 years old typically. So going a little gray hasnt took me out of the game of younger women one bit yet. But it helps that i still have a baby face and a muscular frame. My body is basically one of an athletic 25 years old and my face looks like im in my 20s still.
How have most older men in here noticed growing white hairs affected their dating game? Does it actually improve it, or lower your smv (aging)..?
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
They don't if you have a good physique and status.
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Receding hair/hairline can tank you SMV, gray hairs won't. As long as you take care of yourself, lift hard and know game, no need to worry.
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redhawkes 2 2y ago
It can disfigure you facial symmetry if you don't have the head/skull shape. In some cases it's better to shave it off and grow a beard, obviously get jacked to not look like chemo patient.
Another fix as you mention is fin/dut 5ar inhibitor. I know a guy who slayed left and right before he lost his hair. Now, his SMV tanked at least 3 points on the looks scale. He confirmed it, but he didn't got all incel mode, still get hoes, but not as easily as before. Got on finasteride and almost recovered it.
OTOH, another friend of mine, who lost his hair in his early 20, is the definition of ZFG Alpha, he's also 5'6 tops, bitches ain't problem. It's not that you'll become invisible, just it can fuck you up if you don't have the head shape and symmetry. Some people can pull off the bald look, some can't, but there are other areas you can improve.
AbusiveFather1 2y ago
I heard finasteride has gruesome side-effects
redhawkes 2 2y ago
Really small percent of people get it, and it's reversible once you stop using it.
nicknack 2y ago
Been on it for 2 years and im fine. It's basically a must honestly if you want to continue to fuck girls in their early 20's well into your thirties. The only thing the 24 year old guys have on you is hair, and if you got hair too then youre good.
Portrait34 2y ago
Im gonna guess, amongst possible.answers: something about genetic deficiency (opposite of head full of thick hair), not owning receding hairline and shaving it (worst case scenario trying to cover patch with other longer hair, btw check Gareth Bale.and.why apparently he has long hair), perception/advertisement ((strong hair better)
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Portrait34 2y ago
I think side.effect of Nizoral anti dandruff shampoo active ingredient Ketonazol(?) Is.also showing thickening effects.
There's another a-d ingredient that shows some.effects (its importnat they are different as might work on.different ppl), this one and ketonazol used to be on.prescription here, not anymore.
Like With all meds they will work or not.
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Bagpipes 2y ago
So you feel the white hairs are not a liability, not neutral, but an asset? This is what ive heard from some older guys.
In the past two years, do you think theres possibly any reason you may be more attractive to prime rib girls? Has anything changed the past two years such as weight gain/loss, style change, tattoos, confidence due to career or life changes... or is white hair the only difference you can say?
whytehorse2021 2y ago
It doesn't change your SMV but it changes your game and options. Remember, SMV to women is different than men. Women are looking at status, money, frame, game, etc. You can be an old foddy-doddy guy or you can be a silver fox. It just depends on how you wear your age.
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