Whether it be a STR or LTR what do you use as a parameter for green flags?
Here's my list:
- deflated ego- pretty but low self-esteem or self-assessment
- demure- dresses moderately despite having pronounced features
- good relationship with her father AND consults with him about almost everything
- was raised in a two-parent household
- zero male friends, even if it be at work, she calls them "coworkers" not "friends"
- doesn't say things like "I've never done this before"
- is conscientious about social standing, cares what others think in public
- isn't the life of the party type, shy, but can be eccentric at times
- is tamable- doesn't revolt or bicker when boundaries are set
- low body count, but typically this can be gaged by the factors above
- no tattoos and she's not attracted to males with tattoos
- does feminine hobbies, cooks/ bakes for you without prompting
- is "boring" or okay with laid-back days
- doesn't go out to clubs or bars often
- didn't go to college or visit cities often
- rarely or never uses social media
- if she's from the US, preferably from rural bumblefuck nowhere
- if she's from outside the US, preferably E. Europe or S.E. Asia
- is practicing or actively part of a religious affiliation
- is conservative or libertarian
- is not jabbed
User4566 1y ago
So... Onlyfans chicks?
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User4566 1y ago
Nah, from my point of view a lot of OnlyFans chicks are usually the outcasted sluts you would see in HighSchool. A lot of the popular chicks had a reputation to keep which is why a lot of them just stick to instagram.
I remember some HOT girls in highschool that all the girls avoided because they had a terrible reputation of being a whore.
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User4566 1y ago
Yes, but I think it's not great to be with a girl with a bad self esteem, they get really clingy and annoying.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Obedience, obedience, obedience
Bulba 1y ago
The main green flag is easy shit tests. They can feel almost silly, and you don't need advanced game to win her over, as long as she's into you. If her shit tests are too hard, that's a sign she's quite experienced in filtering out guys.
I've had mixed experiences with several of the so-called green flags on your list. I've met girls with high body counts that would tick many of these boxes.
No-Stress-Cat 1y ago
That's a long list. Yeah, those chicks don't exist, and if they do, you'll have to wait until at least they turn 18.
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
I would quibble with a few of these green flags, but the most notably wrong one is 'low self esteem'.
The lower a girls self esteem, the higher the body count. Sluts are women that hate themselves and think they're worthless (because they are) so they are desperate for the validation of male attention. Whores, sluts, only fans girls are all in their shitty position because of low self esteem.
Low self esteem is also the root cause of a lot of other issues, like excess SM usage. They realise that nobody will be interested in anything they say, so they just use SM. The validation addiction comes from a deep rooted belief that they will never be able to contribute anything of value to society or even to a relationship.
A women with high self esteem and a good amount of assertiveness is what you want. They are the ones that will have higher self control. They aren't going to be impressed with 'gangstas' and low life and drop their panties the moment they encounter some bad boyz n' thugz. (fo shizzle).
As a side note: I chortle to myself when I read about women talking to each other (online stuff, womens magazines) about 'low self esteem' issues, and issues with 'low confidence'. The solution / advice is always 'you go girl' ...'you need to learn to love yourself' etc etc.
I have never ever heard / read any amount of self reflection being advised. They never ever ask the question: why do you think you have low self esteem? What could be the cause? Are there parts of your character that you think might be deficient? Do you think you might have issues with self control, which would lead to you being fat? or a slut? or both?
What changes could you make so that you would have better self esteem? Could you learn some skills? Be productive member of society rather than sitting around gawping at SM, buying shit that you dont need with money you dont have, leeching of your parents / partner/ getting fat, being retarded and bitching about your friends / life / men / the universe? When was the last time you read a book? Books about vampires don't count, neither do books with titles like Be The Queen: How to, like, Actualise Your Actual Awesomeness For Reels.
Final question: could it be that your low self esteem is entirely justified?
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
Fit
Feminine
Friendly
Fun
nicknack 1y ago
Don’t forget the most important one, loyal.
Janus 1y ago
If she will play Yuigoh with me I am making her toes curl.