So met with the friend last night. She said she could only stay for a bit as she was meeting her housemate and she’s got things to do before going on holiday.

Anyway had a drink cleared the air and just was direct and went for it like I would any other girl. I find for me trying to create or find the perfect moment to kiss a woman leans too much into rom coma and losing your virginity.

Much like the first time you have sex or have sex with someone, your first kiss or kiss with someone will always be a little clunky and waiting for the right moment can lead to it not happening.

I decided to take some advice I’ve seen on here I’m not being too needy with kissing. I actually enjoy kissing and quite sensual but I feel like it can come across as needy when I do too much. I kissed her one or two more times throughout the night. It’s still annoying you have to initiate most of these early ones ( I feel it sets the precedent as a lot of girls will get used to this arrangement and never initiate either kissing or sexually)

Her friend came to join and another poor guy came who was after her mate. Just played it off and kept myself to myself and was my usual charming self.

Somethings could have derailed it. The bar we stayed at the longest had a few work parties going on and we were sat with these random girls. These two guys came and sat next to us and tried biting on the randoms and her friend who weren’t having it. They were rude. One of the guys was black too and was trying to amog me and call me out ( asking me why I didn’t know a famous black brand, asking if my friend was my girl and laughing) just remained stoic.

Anyway it was getting late and she was like you should stay at mine. Ended up doing so but you know how girls and their mates are. Ended up staying up for ages eating, chatting showering. Housemate was in her bed for a bit so when we got down to it she was tired.

Woke up in the morning and it happened.

Will need to try some stuff on people who I don’t have the proof with but progress none the less