Facing a lot of LMR on first dates. Just had it with a 36 year old nice single mum who was mixed.
Back at hers and sucking nipple but couldn’t even get over the pants.
Unless to grab the booty.
Soft next until she plays ball?
Have other chicks so I think I displayed abundance but it’s happened on two dates now where they try and blue ball me but first one I pushed past. Is there something I’m doing to put them off or not get over the line.
Wont schedule a date unless it’s at hers for date 2. And have a mind to say to her I don’t like games for the sake of it. Or is that too much? Should I just game other chicks and put her to the back of the q with low effort
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
The more the sex feels like it "just happened" and the more attracted and aroused you get her before even trying to initiate the escalation ladder, the less LMR you will get. Especially if you already threw in some comfort beforehand while demonstrating high value
Also, the longer you engage in foreplay until her body is basically telling you to move to the next step, the less LMR you will get. Essentially if you have extremely good kissing and fantastic hand placement etc, and wait for signs she is nearly begging you to go further, the less LMR you will get at each step
My biggest strategy is to smoothly escalate until I get a tit out/topless. I give very good nipple and breast foreplay and then not surprisingly they let me move on to their pussy.
Once I basically have unfettered access to all of their erogenous zones, I stimulate them and 9/10 times they can't take it any more and ask me to fuck them
"You're teasing me!"
"It's torture!"
"I want you inside of me!"
"I can't take it any more!"
"Are you going to fuck me?!"
If you escalate properly after good initial attraction you really shouldn't be getting hit will all this LMR.
Bozza 2 2y ago
Agreed. Sexual tension and foreplay is the key.
You build up the sexual tension beforehand like an orchestra conductor. Tease and flirt and then... take it away. Build up the kino and then... take it away. Kiss her and just as she's getting turned on... pull away. You want her to be on a tinglez rollercoaster where she is constantly pining for more.
I'll toy with them, kiss them and just as they're starting to get turned on. You stop, and set the frame. "Behave". "Not here". "Later". Depending on how ballsy you feel you can grab their throat and stare them dead in the eye when you say this.
In foreplay it's really fun doing the same thing. Just tease the fuck out of them. Build up the anticipation.
Especially for the underwear, which in my experience is the hardest barrier to get past if you're hitting LMR.
Run your hands down her stomach to her pussy and just as you're about to touch it (over the underwear) - you do the star trek thing with your hand and go around it. Keep doing that. Then you focus in and get closer. Circling the inner thigh. Spiraling in until your just circling around her pussy but not touching it. They go fucking WILD.
You'll feel the blood rushing to it. Then you just lightly brush it. Usually at that point they'll just fling them off and beg you to fuck.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Good shit.
Weird thing is I never get underwear LMR.
I max out my foreplay after demonstrating higher value. I make it very sensual and somewhat dominant. When I'm kissing them I always put my thigh up against their clit. I stimulate them with my leg so that it almost seems like an accident. Plausible clit stimulation. They always moan and never swat my leg away
I can't undersell the power of great sensual kissing and really good nipple licking. Especially if you touch them in a way that almost lets them know you're holding back
I never get hit by underwear LMR. That shit flies off right when I want to it. I do use your tease technique. when their panties are still on I kiss all the way down to their panties and almost get to a clit kiss and then I go back up.
My whole game revolves around just getting them topless which isn't hard. Especially if you kiss down from their neck to their cleavage they really just don't seem to view lips on their breast tissue the same way they view a hand.
They pretty much just let you tit kiss and then because you've already touched them in some way second Base and then topless is just shamefully easy.
Good nipple kisses/licks open all the other doors. it's an unstoppable domino effect of done right
OPPTRP 2y ago
Yeah should have got the top off
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OPPTRP 2y ago
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Yeah I think this might be it. But I don’t with some girls either so I need to know what I do. Maybe it’s the amount of time I spend with them on the first date.
Will say some stuff like this it worked with a girl not putting out on 2nd date.
Thing is this one is a terrible texter so I’m waiting for her to reach out if she doesn’t it’s dead in the water and I’ve got other lines anyway it’s more for next time
whytehorse2021 2y ago
It takes about 45 min for a woman to get into the mood. It's just how their physiology works. Then you gotta figure out where they are in their menstrual cycle because they prefer betas for 2 weeks and alphas for 1 week. Ideally you'd hit her attraction triggers for both.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
LMR is caused by:
Basically she is certain that you'll stick around if she withholds sex. She shouldn't feel like this. She should be terrified that some other girl will get you first.
Definitely see other girls.
If you want regular FWB, sex is best on date 2 or 3.