I met her during summer last year, and plated her until February 2023 (+/- 7 months). The only reason why she's an ex plate, is because she wanted something serious with me, but I wasn't looking for a relationship (still ain't). The sex was good, she never played games, great body, clean, feminine, …
When we had the talk she started crying, after that we didn't talk to each other anymore. It's been 4 months now. I told her to delete my number, so she can't reach out, and I guess that's what she did.
Here's the thing: I just graduated from university. I'm home alone for 3 weeks. My obese brother finally left his room and is going to Japan for 3 weeks, and my parents are out of town for 2 weeks as well. I'm using this opportunity to invite over girls. I was thinking about inviting her over.
The truth is that I don't have many options at the moment. The past 1–2 months, I went into monk mode to focus on my studies. Right now, I have 2-3 other girls who I can invite over. Should I just not invite her over and focus on other girls? Normally I wouldn't hit her up, but this is the first time I'm home alone for 3 weeks, so I want to get the most out of this opportunity.

alureon 2y ago
Don't see any reason why not? Nothing can be lost if you ask. She either isn't interested anymore, you get your answer and you leave the ball in her court or you lay some pipe tonight. Win win.
koedeloe123 2y ago
True, might as well try it.
AbusiveFather1 2y ago
first of all, why did you have to point out that your brother is obese? secondly, don't go digging up the past if you don't have much in the present; I understand you might experience FOMO but if you can't come up with any new leads, take the L and utilize this time to improve yourself so that you can get leads in the future. if she's not stupid, she'll figure out that you don't have options right now - and who gives a fuck about her, but it really does lower YOUR value that you'd resort to this. that's just my subjective opinion of course.
MidgetSpinner 2y ago
You make a great point about her seeing his value as lower by going backwards, but if OP doesn't care and he gets laid, then fuck it.
koedeloe123 2y ago
Yep, I never reach out to ex plates, for this exact reason. It makes your value drop. When a girl reaches out to you, it's different, but reaching out as a man lowers your value. True.
Problematic_Browser 1 2y ago
Lots of words to rationalize stepping in the same pile of shit twice.