Currently in college, I know I am a good looking guy because I get IOIs frequently and even on occasion women come up to me to make small talk. The my main problem is that I am too anxious to capitalize. My plan is to take phenibut for a couple approaches and hopefully I would maintain the skill while off it. Has anyone done this with phenibut or a similar drug?
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whytehorse2021 2y ago
No. Drugs are a buffer. Just use london day game. You start by giving random women compliments. That's it. You make their day. That gets you over approach anxiety and on to the next step. Here it is: http://niplav.site/doc/game/beginners_guide_to_daygame_torero_2018.pdf
JamesSkepp Moderator 2y ago
Untold thousands of guys did it without it. Untold thousands did it by having one drink only. I see no reason why you would need such a drastic measure to deal with approach anxiety if the simplest way of dealing with it is to use "3s rule", approach and open immeditately.
forsorn21 2y ago
I am approaching on a campus, I don't want to fuck up my reputation by being weird.
nicknack 2y ago
Here’s a dark pill that only us older guys know and makes dating in your late 20’s and beyond much easiest. Nobody gives a fuck about you, at all. Zero fucks. If you got hit by a bus tomorrow and your brains went everywhere they would say oh no, and laugh their ass of 2 minutes later at a funny Tiktok.
add to this, approaching women and getting rejected is actually only going to improve your reputation (your reputation that doesn’t matter whatsoever anyway). If girls hear that you approached 5 women and got rejected, the only thing they think is “wow he approaches women all the time, he must be getting laid a lot”.
Dxmx99 2y ago
As a guy who uses phenibut, it's not worth it. It is likely to become counterproductive as well after time.
RedPirate751 2y ago
Don't take fucking drugs dude. Just ride the anxiety out. My god, when did the mere thought of talking to other people become a cause for taking drugs?
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Ok, you get chances with girls.
Some tips:
Smile at them more and enjoy their company. Ask fun and teasing questions (memorise a few standard ones).
Introduce yourself... "Hi, I'm forsorn21". Wait for her reply. HUG HER. Press your face against her neck (not a kiss) and give her an extra squeeze when you do.
Touch them as much as you dare. Do this early to break the touch barrier.
Ask direct questions that may lead to more. "Are you single?" and "Where do you live" and "What's your living situation" and "who are you here with". This telegraphs potential interest, and her answers will help you get from chat to sex.
Always have a plan for something you're doing in the next day or two. Then learn this line:
"You seem like fun, I am going to XXX on Friday, you should come along".
If she likes you, this will be enough to get you a date. Numbers and instagram or whatever other bullshit will flow naturally after the above question, and it's easy to roll off into casual chat if she doesn't bit.
You don't need drugs.
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BabyUareSoSexy 2y ago
Yeah, been using it for 2 years now. It's definitely a fun drug, but don't expect too much from it. It definitely makes me more social, when I'm on Phenibut mixed with 2-3 alcohol drinks, I can't stop talking/flirting with girls.
forsorn21 2y ago
Have you learnt any skills that you can implement while off of it?
BabyUareSoSexy 2y ago
To be honest, not really. It's just eye-opening how much you can accomplish by just walking up to a girl. When you take Phenibut, you don't overthink anymore.