The last chick I was with ( check my post history) sexually ruined my confidence a bit in the bedroom in a weird way. I’ve always been good in bed making women cum from oral or PIV and generally being the type of guy that they beg for more.
As the years have gone on my abuse of masturbating and porn have led to some problems which I am trying to rectify now. My last “partner” said I was not intimate enough in bed we got back together and did foreplay but never got a chance to rectify the intimate thing.
Truth is me when I have sex with a condom vs with a good condom or without are different beasts. I can’t feel much and how it feels for both is what makes both cum.
Anyway somehow stumbled upon a PDF of SGM and not even finished it yet ( mastery of each thing is better than overload for me anyway) and the last two women I have slept have cum multiple times ( 1st two times I think and tonight 4-5 times) just from PIV sex which I have had before but not like this.
It just further goes to show AWALT are AMALT? It’s just so weird like every woman is the same person in a different shell.
Anyway just a report I knew it wasn’t me. I’m still lacking in other areas of TRP but baby steps.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Hang on, I gotta go put my dick in my wife while choking her and pulling her hair...
OPPTRP 2y ago
If you want to. First chick liked it reall aggressive. Slapping in the face Choking
I didn’t see her again I don’t like that. Part of sexual pleasure is doing what feels good for you so it makes her feel good. It’s still a frame game
whytehorse2021 2y ago
No, it's about demonstrating passion and dominance. I don't like pulling my wife's hair or choking her but I do it now and again and now she's constantly begging me for sex.
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
Updoot.
Intrepid_Place53900 1 2y ago
SGM definitely is a hit with most women.
Many women want to be "ravished", I'd almost call it abused by you. what's that all about?
They want to "feel" desired, that you can't get enough of them.
some examples:
Some want this in a rough way , when you are pounding them and hear " oh, fuck me, fuck me, don't stop".
Some want it in a sensual, soft way, you going slow and feeling their whole body, along with sensual talk, sounds.
Some want both in the same session.
how do you know they aren't faking it?
That can be very tough to tell, some girls are very good at faking it, some don't even bother trying, "you done yet"?
Some tell tale signs.
She gets all flustered and red in face/chest,etc
Her vagina contracts on your dick like a vice grip, or it actually pushes your dick out as the walls contract.
The leg shaking and convulsions are a good sign, but can be faked. The others mentioned, I think are very very hard to.
Now, if they are faking it to that level, it's good, she wants to satisfy you, wants you to feel like you did the job.
Many times, it's nothing to do with you.
Stress, alcohol, time of month, fatigue can all play a part with women and men , not climaxing. For women, I think we'd all agree, it's generally harder for them. This is on average, yes there's women who can cum on a dime or just have rolling orgasms for 30 mins.
Foreplay is key for most women. Got to take the time if the end goal was to be attained.
Bagpipes 2y ago
How do you know they came?
What did you actually learn and apply differently after reading SGM?
I remember reading that years ago. I identified as a “natural” in the bedroom as I did most of them without knowing even when I didn’t have a high n count at the time. I re-read it like last year and basically realized I internalized all the DEVI. I don’t see a clear weakness in my DEVI now so I guess the book helped.
OPPTRP 2y ago
Why did you delete your post
OPPTRP 2y ago
Undeniable shaking of legs and things you can’t fake.
More dominant. More interested in what feels good for me so it also feels good for her. Be more immersive in the moment try to relax and feel present Dirty talk Eye contact
I’m still reading so will level up
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OPPTRP 2y ago
Been on this forum for years and never seen a hater post from another one. Seen hater comments.
The first girl could have been faking it she squirted a little but she was over the top with the noise imo..
Second girl this was the second time we had sex.. first time somennoise but never said she came even from oral.. this time she came hard I could feel her legs involuntarily shaking and her running away from my dick M similar to when you cum and girl keeps sucking the sensation is overwhelming you want to push her head off
I have to work on the immersion. The sensitivity in my dick isn’t all there after years of PMO I’m not sure if I should go cold Turkey even from sex but it’s getting better I forget what the v is.. variance?