Hi,
I am wondering on text game. Do you guys keep the texting on minimal and only for logistics or also just to catch up?
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Hi,
I am wondering on text game. Do you guys keep the texting on minimal and only for logistics or also just to catch up?
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Bozza 2 2y ago Stickied
Early on it's best to keep it strictly to logistics, especially if you are new to game/trp.
The risk with text game is that it's very easy to fuck up. Something you say gets misinterpreted. You come across as too needy and available. Or the conversation gets boring and they dry up. You also want to be focussing on meeting her and fucking, not giving her free validation.
Once you've fucked, or if you did a good job in building attraction before you got the number - then they should be initiating contact and general chit chat with you. In which case you can then just reply and have some light hearted conversation/flirting.
Certainly the younger girls love texting. If they make conversation with you then just respond and play along. But don't get too invested, don't be too available, and try to keep it in a flirty/sexual frame. When in doubt, err on the side of texting less.
The only exception is if you haven't met/fucked yet, and the meet is organised for quite a few days away. Lets say you've got a date organised a week from now. It's worth drip feeding texts to keep her on the hook. Go a day or two without texting, then drop her a random low effort text. Let the conversation fizzle, wait a day or two, another text. Do that until the date.
Acela_nextel 2y ago
I mean if your a white boy go ahead and play text buddies with her. Us black dudes got no time for that shit
cjtakk 2y ago
Wow, great advice. Thank you! This was particularly accurate for my situation with a younger gal and you pointed out a couple very good points!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
I do the same. I generally text for logistics until I fuck them. After that it appears to help, rather than hurt, to respond to their convos over text.
I think text for logistics is outdated in a world where people are constantly snapchatting, talking on insta and Facebook etc.
At least I haven't noticed a pitfall yet. I've definitely said stupid shit texting for regular convo and that's always a risk. There's also always a risk of straying into murky water in certain convos too
nicknack 2y ago Stickied
For years I kept texting to strictly logistics. That means like every 3-5 days I'd hit her up and plan the next date, seeing her every 3-5 days. This is red pill strategies 101, one of the first things you learn in the art of seduction. I got a serious girlfriend who really fell in love with me and was constantly complaining about it, but still showed up when invited and was seriously into me. I guess she liked the chase / mystery. She's an actually good girl who wants marriage and a family and I'm a man slut who constantly has multiple women, many close to 10 years younger than her (28).
These side peices I didn't care so much about red pill strategy and texted them whenever I want. Losing side pieces doesn't hurt, really it only sucks to lose a lead when you have nothing else going on. Anyway, I texted some of these girls every day just making conversation, and found that it's actually more successful than texting only for logistics. I can get a girl to start catching feelings for me within one week of texting daily. Blowing me passionately when we meet, shaking when I touch them, you just know. I ended things with my gf because I'm not trying to get married right now, and my new strategy for the last 6 months since then has been just text girls all the time.
Make some convo, but the trick is to respond ASAP (golden is 3-4 minutes, its not too quick but not long enough to cool down). That way she responds quickly too, and you can actually get a decent convo going. The main benefit though is that you can't overthink it. Thinking of a good text is exhausting. If you force yourself to send it off within 4 minutes you move on with your day and think about other shit.
Ask her about what her routine is, what restaurants she likes, where she gets coffee, what she is up to, has she been to x place. Women are self-centered as hell and love to talk about themselves. Especially young women in their prime. Women under 25 have grown up with texting as the main form of communication. I'd still try to keep seeing her to 2 times a week max, but I tend to text every day with girls Im talking to.
cjtakk 2y ago
Yeah in my situation I make good convo with her especially after last weekend she leads the convo. For me I can't normally respond that quickly though because of work and whatever. But I have noticed the same empirical stuff as you!
nicknack 2y ago
Yeah the truth is, when they are into you, they will basically lead the convo. "How's your day?" "good, i went to the store, walked my pet goldfish, saw a submarine, blah blah blah" then you just kinda go off that and ask another question. It's pretty simple. And sorry for lack of clarity, but I don't mean text them every 3-4 minutes of the day. If you respond in 3 minutes and she does, then that can be 100 texts a day. But text her when you're actually free to talk. For my example, I am free to talk in the evening after work, so I text them all in the evening and send texts back and forth then.
cjtakk 2y ago
Yep, I have the same situation and been doing the same. If there is actual conversation going and I have some spare time, then sure. But otherwise just some random exchanging of face pictures I try to avoid.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Varies.
I'm happy to keep in touch with girls I'm banging, but otherwise I'm aiming not to kill attraction which means random response times and significant gaps.