There's shit test and there's disrespect. So how do you tell the difference? I've found it helpful to assume everything is a shit test. Not sure if this is a good approach though.
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coolsocks00 3 months ago
It is, because otherwise you're taking women too seriously.
Just have some idea of at what point you think a chick is being too cunty to bed. For me this varies. Sometimes i couldnt give two shits if a girl is a major bitch, as a dick in her mouth usually takes care of it. Other times i got better things to do.
Cleavagedestroyer 3 months ago
Not op but thanks brother.
Life often fattens me up and makes me forget everything is a shit test.
Intrepid_Place53900 3 months ago
yes, assume it's a shit test.
there's minor and major shit tests, I'm sure you can figure which is which.
Also, the frequency of shit tests matter. If she's constantly shit testing you, she thinks she's above you, she can do better.
Note: thinks she can, is often not reality, but who said women deal in reality
whytehorse2021 3 months ago
Disrespect has to do with boundaries. You set boundaries and they disrespect you by crossing them.
mattyanon Admin 3 months ago
Exactly.
Don't take any of it too seriously, whether it's real or not.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3 months ago
Shit test = assessing your fitness
Outright disrespect = she's not testing you, she's doing something only someone who thinks poorly of you would do
IBelieveInTheFallen 3 months ago
This is the real answer. Assuming everything is a shit test is just going to lead you to become a doormat who lets a 90 midget treat you like dirt while you aGrEE aNd AmPlIFy.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3 months ago
Exactly. One should be able to spot outright disrespect.
Ask yourself, even if this was a joke or a test, would I ever tolerate being treated this way?
If the answer is no it was NOT a shit test
IBelieveInTheFallen 3 months ago
I talked to a customer the other day and the next day his wife called me with questions.
Customer was in the background and his wife goes “WAIT DAVID!!!” and then she lowered her tone a bit and said “What, David!?”
Well David was like “Nevermind” and she eventually got him to say what he wanted to say. This wasn’t a shit test, she just didn’t respect him and yelled at him. I would not want to ever be in that position of getting yelled at like that by my wife.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3 months ago
Yeah exactly, that's definitely not a shit test
RIP I would not want a marriage like that
JCantell 3 months ago
EQ
No-Stress-Cat 3 months ago
Shit Test = Doing something you don't like.
Disrespect = Doing something you don't like after telling her to knock it the fuck off.