So a girl I was 'friends' with was fresh out of a relationship and coming onto me really hard. She let me come over and smash and she was talking about how much she wanted me all the time. When I look back on what happened it was a typical AF BB story, I was the AF and some other guy I know of but I've never talked to him was trying to get her as well but obviously I was the one getting the action. Shed go on with relationship-like talk sometimes and it was clear this plate had a hard expiry date if I didn't promote her up fast. I fucked up so bad by making her think I didn't value her that much and then she changed and went with this other dude and got into a BF GF thing real fast.
It's been a few weeks and she contacted me a couple times just with a bit of small talk at first but she's been quite silent ever since I wasn't responding as much. I dodged the whole friendship thing and now I'm not sure what to do because I wouldn't mind being 'friends' since we were before we hooked up but I don't know how to manage it and whether I should message her first since shes gone silent now. Felt shit how fast she switched from me when she thought I wasn't a boyfriend prospect anymore, wouldve liked to get to know her better but she started acting up toward the end and I stopped trying to pull her back since I didn't want to lose frame.
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Bozza 3 months ago
Plates break, it's what happens. You couldn't give her commitment, she got it elsewhere.
Find a new plate to replace her.
Lionsmane8 3 months ago
Keep her in your circle, women HATE the betas they have to settle with. So either she'll lose interest or he'll slip up and she'll get her excuse to hop off the relationship and hop back on your dick.
Avoid "friendship", keep it at the "acquaintance" level with some flirting. You already have some history of being intimate so it's easier.
That being said, figure out what you want with her, don't give an LTR if you don't want one. And don't count on her coming back, it's a probabilities thing. Fuck other bitches.
Intrepid_Place53900 3 months ago
she's fresh out of a relationship, she just wanted some feelz/fun to forget the other guy.
She's a plate, treat her like one. Don't get feelz, she's probably doing a few other guys like you