GET HER TO CHASE BACK I met this girl, at the start she was all into, asking and touching and chasing. Now she deflects every attempt of going out, never being straightforward, more like that " i can't because my cat has cramps" kind of excuse. But when we do see each other, she acts like there is nothing wrong. Is this a shit test? How do i pass it like a boss? It's like she is pushing me to friendzone.
Should i talk to her about this situation? Or just go silent -- then she'll probably ask, as did once, but how do i act then?
Gilles 3 months ago
Pursue other women.
BabyUareSoSexy 3 months ago
I will never understand men who chase women with low interest. It's obvious she's no longer interested. Soft next this one and meet other women.
Lionsmane8 3 months ago
Many reasons why she would be doing this. It would depend on her mindset, age, context and what she's looking for.
It can be anyyhing from she's shy and crushing hard or she just wants to flirt and some free attention (maybe already has a man, who knows).
Flirt with her but focus on other girls.
Bozza 3 months ago
Sometimes they're just like this. They're shy, they want attention - who cares.
If you aren't getting anywhere, talk to other women.
JCantell 3 months ago
By not falling into her frame.
You’re in a reactive frame by default if you’re worried about losing her.
Your want should never become need, naturally, if you are living a life of abundance.
cav123 3 months ago
How do i get a stronger frame if we see each other regularly?
JCantell 3 months ago
Diminish your mental aversion to pain and necessary suffering.
Do what’s necessary, always. This is always better for you in the long run. Be rational in your actions, not emotional.
Never chase a woman. If it’s time for her to go, let her go. She’ll come back or she won’t. Never need any one woman.
As with most things in life, women come and go. You come into this world and you leave this world alone. Come to terms with that.
Intrepid_Place53900 3 months ago
I never chased women.
Sure, I'd let my intentions know, made first moves,etc.
If I didn't get clear Intention of interest back, I'd move on
some women do like to be chased, they won't' be chased by me
Problematic_Browser 3 months ago
Don't waste your time. If she's interested she'll come back. If she's not, she won't
mattyanon Admin 3 months ago
Ok.
Women often pretend to be super interested at first - this is to play for time to work out if they are truly interested without losing your interest.
That's normal.
The broken ones fake interest to get more attention, friends, support, orbiters, etc.
If it was, you've already failed for some reason. It's not a shit test, it's an indication of her lack of interest.
of course not
Go silent, ignore, next.
Girls who like you don't behave like this, so don't waste time thinking you want to get back to how things started with her. She either lost interest or faked it to start with. Doesn't matter. Next. Fuck her friends.
cav123 3 months ago
what do i do when she comes "is somethig wrong?". We do see each other regularly at gym.
mattyanon Admin 3 months ago
Fundamentally it doesn't matter, you're not seeking her approval are you? You don't care what she thinks, right?
"All good here..... been busy" then wink at her.
orbilius 3 months ago
What’s the context where you’re seeing her? Like at school? If so a bit of preselecting will get her hamster wheels turning. You need to show up some place with a “friend” - another girl.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3 months ago
I would not entertain her. I had a backburner girl who is the same way. You are probably in her backburner
Drop and pursue other women. This isn't a shit test she is just not driven to meet you and that's something you should bail from
cav123 3 months ago
How do i bail out not being butthurt/giving her drama/etc?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3 months ago
What?
No. Stop reaching out to her etc she's a waste of time