I am an attractive guy 6"2' and good looking face. I occasionally get women initiating conversations with me and invariably get women looking at and smiling. My issue is I have terrible confidence, sometimes I literally shake when speaking to women. Will using prostitutes help me transition to regular women
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Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
It will not.
There's an old saying - "train as you fight." Getting experience with prostitutes will only help you with prostitutes. You need the discomfort of women rejecting you in order to overcome it.
Why are you being such a bitch in regards to being afraid to fail? You are already an outlier in one of the most important categories to women. You're literally starting on 2nd base the second you walk in the room.
Acela_nextel 1y ago
I never get why dudes hate on seeing hookers, maybe they’re afraid of getting arrested….
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
Because hookers don't help you with your real problems. They're fun for a night but it's not real. You aren't attractive to them, they don't have real interest in you.
A fat, ugly, stinky loser can get a Hooker. Shit doesn't count.
Boosted_Arrow 1y ago
I did, but only for sexual experience. honestly it doesn't matter whether you talk to women at a bar or go to a prostitute. Both scenarios carry the chance that she doesn't like you and the encounter turns to shit or she likes you and you have a good time. I'm more hesitant now to go to them bc. I don't want to spend money on a woman that doesn't appreciate me and I don't find hot.
If you want to get better at sex or the confidence in sex, then it could be a possibility to use escorts for that. Otherwise Milfs at the bar might also do the trick.
The only thing you need is practice. Practice! With escorts or without, just practice and at some point it'll get easier.
TRPDuryodhana 1y ago
Prostitutes will not help with confidence, as confidence is more about your internal self-image rather than anything external. Also, relying on prositutes won't help you in developing game; passing shit tests, quick thinking, navigating social facades, etc., can be only be learned through repeated trial and error.
Some of them are great for sex though. You also won't act thirsty for the first women that gives you little attention; women will intiutively pick up on this, which will work in your favour.
RedPirate751 1y ago
No, because you pay them to tell you what you want to hear. That's not at all similar to real social interaction.
If you want to get better, you're going to have to take risks. You will have to put yourself in situations where you might fail. It'll make you anxious at first, but its the only way to truly rewire your brain and remove your fear.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
No, use London Day Game. http://niplav.site/doc/game/beginners_guide_to_daygame_torero_2018.pdf
It's the same game you use on prostitutes, ironically.
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
No, Tom Torero wrote it. He used to have a video I would always share but it got taken down. This is the best I can find anymore.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 1y ago
If anything, it'll sap what little confidence you have because you'll know they fucked you for money, and not out of desire.
I recommend against using them before getting good at spinning plates, and then only use them as a release.
MrSupreme 1y ago
It might help loosen up while having sex ,although prostitute reactions are all faked. Those girls are just for fucking and having fun , nothing serious comes out of it.
Bulba 1y ago
A guy who can afford to regularly see prostitutes without significantly impacting his income can already attract women without having to pay for it. That's why they're mostly sought after by married men who want to cheat on their wives without facing major consequences. They're not paying for the sex but for her silence.
Bagpipes 1y ago
I’ve seen quite a few I’ve done international traveling so they were cheap, only way I would justify going to one.
I’ve had many of them want to date me outside of work, no bullshit, no more paying. But I am young 24 and tatted and ripped with a good job.
I dated one as a plate not a LTR. It wasn’t like a normal girl. But sex was crazy. Met her family and everything. After we stopped seeing beach other I continued seeing escorts because why not . I think it’s fair to mention I was also spinning normal plates so I never substituted them for real women
It got to a point where my sex game became really good. Being good at sex is not this Chad meme. It’s literally like getting good at the gym or a martial art or any other physical activity/sport except easier.
As long as my SMV was sharp I eas able to get them to volunteer their numbers for free. They wanted to see me without paying but I was no longer interested in playing them because it’s literally cheaper to pay them by the hour.
I let some good ones go. Maybe not high RMV but smoking hot 18-23 year old women with my ideal body types.
Ask me anything bro.
Acela_nextel 1y ago
What website u got em from?
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
You don't need a website if you're international.
In most countries, selling ass is not only legal, it's commonplace.
forsorn21 1y ago
Did seeing them make you more confident?
Bagpipes 1y ago
In certain ways. From a purely sex skill perspective, 100%. I know I wont ever lose a girl from a sexual prowess standpoint of a relationship. If I lose a girl it will be from game or smv. I dont make rookie mistakes in the bedroom anymore:
Awkward kissing
Not knowing how to eat pussy
Jackhammering is bad. Girls want to be pounded. So slow down the pace and make it steady. Speed is not better than strength
Knowing where to pull their hair on the roots, lots of rookies do it wrong and cause pain by tugging their hair on the ends
Knowing how to properly choke a girl
Knowing how to hold them to provide comfort, and how to touch them to get them aroused. Rookies make a mistake of initiating cuddles with a girl, it can be seen as needy and inexperienced and generally a weakness. Let the girl initiate the cuddle.
Rookies scared to be dominant
Rookies are scared to moan. I literally get in their ear and moan if im in missionary while pulling their hair. Or kiss them in missionary while im pounding and moan in their mouth. I have fine-tuned my "sex game" to this degree, in huge part thanks to escorts. Although I would admit I learned this specific trait with my recent ex. Since we broke up I do it with new girls and they LOVE it.. but thats mainly because guys dont moan.
Its almost impossible for me to have "awkward sex" on the first fuck. That occurs because the man is trying to figure out sexual compatibility with a girl. Because Ive seen a lot of hookers, I have created a universally-loved style trial and tested by many women both in dating and escorts. I didnt just fuck one girl a thousand times. That would make you good at sex with only her. The next girl may not like that tongue trick you do on her, because you did it on your ex. Basically I pull all my tricks on new girls and i see which ones they respond to and do those more. Some like kissing during sex, some like to be pinned down, some like the spanks, some like when you suffocate them with your bodyweight on top. I can generally tailor my sex game more specifically to the girl by the 3rd or 4th time we fuck. Just like anything, there is levels to it, as you can see with the aid of escorts i have been able to get a lot deeper into it and develop my "own style" just like a martial art.
Did it make me more confident at the club picking up girls?
Not much. Only in the sense of I know I can handle them sexually and I do think theres an aura of confidence with that. But i dont think it transfers to smooth game that comes out your mouth. That can only be attained by non-sexual interactions with women.
The main thing i learned is my type of women. I experimented with different skin colors and body shapes. I learned that the more attractive the woman is to me, as in being my type, the better the sex and relationship. This saves me time, as I wont approach girls who are not my type anymore even if im horny. I also know my "type" more specifically as well. And im able to look at a girl and tell if she looks good with her clothes off or better. Its hard to catfish me sexually in that matter. Imagine courting a girl for months to find out her ass isnt how you thought it would look when the jeans come off. Or you discovered she had a belly. Or you discovered you dont actually like skinny girls.
This is huge because i know what makes me happy and fulfilled. When I was inexperienced and in high school I remember i had a crush on this really hot skinny girl with a beautiful face. Now that im older, I realize that I heavily prefer sex with curvier women, and with true attraction comes true feelings required for a LTR. You shouldnt enter a LTR with a girl you dont actually like, including body type. But some guys have no choice.