I know standard TRP rejoinder is text only for logistics, but does this work on GenZ girls as well? I'm not sure. These girls have been brought on the steady diet of social media and instant messaging.
Not to mention there is a VAST difference b/w the culture in America and rest of the world. For example, in my country, India, most young people still live with their parents. So, even though American neoliberal media is pervasive in young minds, the living conditions on the ground, for the most, are still traditional because of economy and old values (though the values part is quickly changing).
So, would the old rules about text game still hold? Why or why not?
PS: Note that I'm only interested in text guides for social circle game, and defo. not OLD or the like (an inherently anti-male sphere).
Ibanez 1y ago
@matyannon's response is right.
What I understand as "text game", apart from logistics, is teasing, sending her pics of you doing cool shit or to tease jokingly at her and sending pings in different scenarios to test if she is available/interested.
Anything other else is bullshit IMO, if u met her online, lol.
Go outside and talk to them. You can get their number/insta later and it doesn';t matter what you come up with in the text, as long as it is cool/laid off and not autistic. Why? Because if the interaction was good and she got attracted to you when you were in person, she will remember you.
Literally no one cold approaches anymore, not even guys who like to brag here of doing that. Talking/Flirting with your barista doesn't count as cold approach :)
TRPDuryodhana 1y ago
No I specifically rejected OLD. OLD is shit.
I'm talking about social circle game; especially if the chick is interested, and keeps coming for more on her own.
btw found this one that I think a good job of explaining of what I was after, https://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
Bozza 1y ago
There aren't any good text game guides for TRP. There's a few here and there with a few good tidbits, but nothing comprehensive. It might be worth me taking a stab at writing one.
If you only text for logistics, you will quickly be forgotten about. Maybe if you're over 30 that might still work, but anyone in their 20s is used to rapid and regular communication. If you don't speak to them for 3 days, another chad has already popped up in her DMs and you're yesterdays news.
I've found the best results when you keep communication limited, and every now and again throw in some longer conversations and comfort building. Always cut it short on a high note.
TRPDuryodhana 1y ago
Just found this golden gem: https://web.archive.org/web/20200809180203/http://authorcloud.co/MrVs-Guide-To-Texting-Girls-dq16ldatn
dongking 1y ago
I agree man. With younger girls it's important to have solid text game.
My key take aways from years of succesful OLD and texting would be;
Bozza 1y ago
Indeed, the power of social media is not to be under estimated.
Send out a few pictures or videos when you're doing cool stuff. Also keep your stories updated regularly, women will use them as good excuses to open you.
pofkaf 1 1y ago
If you're relatively new to TRP, stick to the old rule of thumb. Texting should only be used for logistics. That will help you stay true to the course and not get caught up in being a girl's text buddy.
However, if you're more experienced and have mastered other aspects of attraction, then you can be a little more creative with texting. By that point you should already understand the fundamentals of game, so they should be naturally applied to any interaction with women, including texting.
I suggest watching the YouTube channel Playing Woth Fire. He has tons of good advice for texting.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
Text only for logistics doesn't work with this new crop of girls.
nicknack 1y ago
I’ve had girls drop me for not texting one day. Young girls are overstimulated as hella. I’ve found with texting it’s best to text daily but very low effort. In other words let her carry the conversation but be there and present often
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Which is why you don't play by her rules. Online contacts makes you a tiny voice in the crowd. It plays to her strengths and diminishes yours.
Do they not watch TV? Are they not female?
There's no such thing as text game. It doesn't work. Women cannot emotionally or sexually bond over text, it's a waste of time for you.
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Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
This is the correct answer. text game is a non-starter. You'll be pulled straight into her frame.
Young men - you need to realise what is the dream of a young woman. What they want is hundreds of guys chasing her, texting her, making her phone go bing every 30 seconds. Validation and attention is what she wants. most of the time, when a woman gives you her number, and wants you to start texting her, she just wants you to join her roster of eager beavers that text her all the time. This is why SM has fucked up young women - having a relationship, where she just bangs one guy, cannot compete with the dopamine that she gets from likes and swipes and heart emojis.
You CANNOT seduce a woman with texts. Don't fall into the texting black hole.
Bozza 1y ago
All very valid points. But in this day and age texting is a bit more important than it was perhaps 10 years ago when the bulk of TRP content was written.
The focus should still always be on arranging face to face meets (i.e. text for logistics). Once you've met, built sexual tension and fucked - then it becomes a lot easier as she will naturally chase your validation and attention.
That being said - until you have had that face to face meeting, you need to keep her hooked. And even after you've fucked, you still need to drop the odd breadcrumbs of comfort and rapport building.
With SM, OLD etc. attention spans are at an all time low. Hell, if I text a chick on a Monday and arrange logistics, if I haven't heard from her by Wednesday I've already forgotten she exists. In those two days I've been doing shit and I've been bombarded with dopamine hits from plates texting, tinder matches etc.
If that happens to me as a guy - then it must be extreme if you're a hot 22 year old girl. Unless your SMV is giga high, then you'll just be forgotten when 2 more chads text her the next morning.
Gilles 1y ago
I never understood these posts about text game. Use text for logistics. Maybe chat a bit to establish some rapport. It doesn't matter you write if she likes you. if you think about what to text her you're in her frame, and you won't get her anyway.
This post is helpful:
https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/youre-not-her-top-option.51140
TRPDuryodhana 1y ago
Shit. This post hurts but yeah, I get it.
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whytehorse2021 1y ago
It's the same as London Day Game but complicated by the fact you have to learn a bunch of emoji crap to communicate. Just start with a compliment. I mean, what chick doesn't like compliments? Then you pass a few shit tests to prove you're not a beta. Then you put your dick in her and cum directly onto her cervix while she's ovulating.