Had a ONS this weekend. She is super clingy. Next day after meeting me said she misses me, whenever i need company wants to meet up. Sent me nudes and I set up a date for tonight. Im just having second thoughts, she is attractive but kind of not my exact type. I feel like im wasting time and money on a cheap fuck (which is free obviously).
I have a pretty high n-count and sex is meh to me. Im at the point where i want all quality girls. This girl is attractive but cool personality, but after seeing her photos sober i want to cancel. Shes not ugly, but shes not my type even tho she looks better in person. We just clicked on personality during ONS and plus there was some sexual tension when i escalated. Im also traveling in Brazil, i would rather go home alone after trying to get a pretty girl at the bar then just settle for a mid Brazilian girl. Idk. Theyre all hot to me, even the average ones, so its why im entertaining her.
Just not sure if shes going to block me for feeling rejected or if this will actually make her way more needy and text me more. I kind of feel shitty today a bit hungover.
If I cancel I kind of want the chance of seeing her again, if i have second thoughts. But in my gut i feel if i cancel she will feel autorejected or like im playing games, and go cold on me.
Does cancelling on a plate make them go into autorejection or will it just make them more attracted (and needy)?
mattyanon Admin 1y ago
Could go either way.
Look, you've got options. Treat her how you want to treat her and ditch if she isn't what you want.
Do you want a girl who is open to rearranging plans? I think yes, so cancel. If she goes mental then next. If she complies then you get what you want.
"Sorry girl, something came up, I'll hit you up next week with plans that I hope I can keep"
Problematic_Browser 1 1y ago
Depends.
I routinely cancel on "plates".
I don't do it to play games, I just don't give a fuck about their plans or time. There are only two people who matter enough to me to respect their time.