I’m confused is a hard next a block or just deleting her number. I blocked a girl recently but someone says blocking just shows her you care. But then again its a hard next. She disrespected my time and flaked on hard set plans not like a regular date but like an event and she basically fucked up my planning because I accounted for more people. Kinda like rsvping to a wedding but not showing up. But it wasn't a wedding lol.
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Problematic_Browser 2 weeks ago
If I block someone, it's because they're annoying as fuck.
Only you can assess the reasons you do it
Bozza 2 weeks ago
A hard next is completely cutting off contact. How you go about doing that is entirely upto you.
You can delete their number and ghost, you can block.
If you hard next you aren't going to speak or see them again, so who gives a fuck what they think.
JCantell 2 weeks ago
Blocking her number is some chick shit.
Oh, I’m gonna show HER! block
Only reason to do this is if she won’t leave you the fuck alone/blowing up your phone.
Vermillion-Rx 2 weeks ago
How does a group plan revolve around her attendance? Was she that important to the group for her abilities and presence? That was your first mistake there if that was the case, even more so if that wasn't the case.
The hard next is for irreconcilable disrespect
Sot nexting is for flakes etc. Hard nexting is like false accusations, her hitting you, violence, sending you a voicemail screaming at you, cheating in an LTR, humiliating you in front of a group, etc
You don't hard next for a girl annoying you. Now you can just block or tell them you're not really interested in going out any more. That's not a hard next per se. It's an indefinite soft next with hard next effect. Hard next is when you basically tell them to fuck off and virtually bridge burn if I'm understanding the nuance of a block correctly in terms of this kind of nexting
mattyanon 2 weeks ago
Hard next simply means it's over between you.
Blocking or not blocking...... doesn't matter
Caring if you show you care or not....... doesn't matter
Hard next means you are over it. If she contacts you, you tell her it's over. Block if she persists. Ignore otherwise.
Next means next.
whytehorse2021 about a week ago
Personally, I like to block and delete them from my contacts so it never shows they called and I never accidentally see their name in my contacts.
lurkerhasarisen about a week ago
Deleting from contacts on all devices and platforms is important. If you get hacked, whoever did it is likely to send messages to everyone on your contact list. Add in all the times you've butt-dialed someone in your contacts or been on the receiving end of a butt-dial.
Whether or not you make your devices block her, be sure to make them forget her.