For example, chatting with a girl with huge interest to go meet at her hotel and she is saying she is coy and asking other ways to convince her.
Does it mean she is down to sleep with you, but does not want to be explicit about it and say yes right away?
Is it a shit test?
How do deal with this?
Bozza 1y ago
Need a bit more context
throaaasd21 1y ago
For example, chatting with a girl with huge interest to go meet at her hotel and she is saying she is coy and asking other ways to convince her.
Bozza 1y ago
Shit test.
Convince me why I should sleep with you. Now dance monkey, dance.
Dismiss it with something witty and then carry on with logistics.
If she keeps pressing on it then just dismiss "okay no problem". If she is genuinely high interest she'll back track and beg you to come over.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
I'd like to add to @bozza she might also be trying to get you to tell you that you need to come up with some plausible deniability reason to go over to her hotel.
Probably a mix of shit test and wanting you to give an actual socially acceptable excuse to have you go to her hotel
AurelianWay 1y ago
What venues or bars are around her hotel? Make up some bullshit story that you have never been to this bar before and you want to check it out. Just set up a date near her hotel and get a couple drinks in her then escalate.
RedPirate751 1y ago
Get a fucking dictionary and look up the word coy.
IchBin 1y ago
Hey man, it is not accident Urban Dictionary exist, but all these are controlled by blue pills so as long as there is no red owned reference website, then I'd rather see other men ask in right places, like here. It is not a sort of specific 'how do I get her back' "TRP" Q that searchengine will find.
I'm actually here to see clues myself.
Lone_Ranger 2 1y ago
she self describes as 'coy'? wtf. Are you in a Jane Austen novel?
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Lionsmane8 1y ago
She wants you to game her a bit more.
If she's young and quality with low or no body count, i might put in extra effort.
If she's the opposite of that, i expect the panties to come off immediately.
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mattyanon Admin 1y ago
The problem is that "huge interest" is often misread by men.
You absolutely don't want to try to convince her....... this is you chasing.
This is the point at which you do the opposite and you back off a bit..... "well hey, if you don't wanna......."
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I'm thinking it's her anti-slut defense.