So her friend seems to be some type of crazy obsessed hoovering screening type of creature, being tremendously concerned about my house, my job, etc.
The one time I hung out with her and her friend the friend was incessantly jabbering away, aggressively dominating the entire interaction and being condescending to my face (thinking that I didn't understand Mandarin) and making me tremendously uncomfortable.
At some point the friend fell asleep (I think the friend burned herself out being a tremendous fucking prick) and I had some great alone time with the girl (didn't fuck though).
We were physically really close to each other (the girl was willing to be close enough to let me smell her hair) but it was a public place and I don't think she trusted me enough to bring her back home yet.
I just felt super traumatized after that incident and haven't contacted the girl since. I don't know how to deal with her friend if I ever have to speak to them as a group again in the future, I also don't really know how to dodge the friend properly. What should I do?
dongking 2y ago
Why are you hanging out with a girl + her friend?
Isolate -> escalate.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
damnit you stole my words.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
Fucker beat you to it!
And me as well.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
He needs a spank.
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
Find a girl with standards in her friends.
Typo-MAGAshiv Endorsed Contributor 2y ago
Holy fuck, stop being a pussy.
Did you watch your friend blow up?
Did you watch someone bleed out, and the life go from their eyes as they died?
Did you hear people scream as they were burned alive?
No?
Then you were not TrAuMaTiZeD. You're just being a pussy.
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Unusual_Respond 2y ago
Go on dates with just her. Make her like you and then she will talk and introduce you to her friends.
You wont have to make them like you at that point.
Muhhic 2y ago
Story sounds like you are leaving out many things. Kind of doesn't make sense.
UnhappyAttemptori 2y ago
What am I leaving out? I can elaborate
whytehorse2021 2y ago
Yeah if they're speaking Mandarin they're Asian-culture and you can expect this. Running game on Asian-culture chicks is different. You have to have high SMV and RMV to open the legs. Alpha Bucks, basically. There is no single-mother welfare state in Asia, no spousal support or alimony from divorce, etc. So they look for the beta side of hypergamy: job, house, car, etc. You'll get grilled on things that relate to being a good father and husband.
TRPDuryodhana 2y ago
Not the case anymore from what I see. Indian culture is similarly conservative like the Chinese. But feminism is spreading like the Corona virus here; so the attitudes are slowly changing. Still not as bad as the US though.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
India is hell when it comes to modern day women and feminism. I would say India is worse than the US even. I can't speak towards China as I don't know enough but I did fuck a Taiwanese-American cougar like 20yrs ago ;).