I ended our relationship almost 5 months ago, no contact since then. She was pleasant to be around for the most part, I just wasn't ""feeling it"" anymore at the end.
Now, a few hours ago, she sent me a text asking me how I'm doing.
What's the play, what do I make out of this? Should I even reply?
The only thing I'm certain about is that I don't want to be in a LTR with her.
dirtymikeandtheboyz 1y ago
Just leave it, look for something better. I wouldnt even waste my time on hooking up with her unless your are hard up for it
whytehorse2021 1y ago
You kinda sound like a chick when you say "not feeling it". Feels before reals.
MrSupreme 1y ago
She's attention starved, take your sweet time to reply or don't reply at all since you're not looking for anything with her
financehardo420 1y ago
Iron Rule of Tomassi #7
It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
whytehorse2021 1y ago
I see your training has brought you far young Padawan. Now let's talk about finance degrees... lmfao
koedeloe123 1y ago
Plenty of girls out there, don't get in contact with your ex, just ignore her message.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 1y ago
Unless she magically just wants to be a fucktoy with no emotional drama, best to steer clear.
Maybe just ask how she's doing but keep your line in the sand if you don't see any further intimacy as being worth the likely headache this will be
dongking 1y ago
Usually when an ex gf reaches out it's because she's just gotten dumped and feeling low, so she wants some comfort and attention from you.
I'd ignore or have a very short small talk convo at best. No meet up for sure.
Lionsmane8 1y ago
What do you want?
Do you want to bang or LTR or nothing.
You can plate her now if she falls into your frame.