Everyone hate girls and complain about how every girls are whores
Yet, most guys, only meet girls on Tinder, Clubs, bars which is the bottom of the barrel of females
If you pass the looks threshold, you have 2 options to meet quality girls :
- you need to approach girls outside of party area, like street, library, university, grocery store etc ...
- or you need gain status in order to join a social circle with rich people
i'm in my 3th year of medecine, most of the girls are rich, dont have tinder, dont drink, dont go clubbing, dont have tatoos, dont smoke or any shit like that
This is just to give you an example, either gain status/money or find a place where you might have a chance to find a quality girl
Stop fucking complaing about girls if you only meet them on tinder, club & bars, please
If you can't meet a quality girls, it most likely mean you are poor or low status
Having just looks will only gets you garbage tinder/club feminist useless whores
Lone_Ranger 3 3y ago
This is a good observation. Many on here won't like this post, but its the truth. If you meet a girl in a bar / club / vaccay swim up bar / OLD / IG ....she is likely to be trash. It's a bit stupid to spend 10 years fishing in the pool of women clearly marked 'trash' and then complain that all women are trash. What you really mean is that all women that you meet are trash. But...you're only interested in meeting women that 'put out' - so you're only meeting sluts. So... you end up bitter and twisted because all the women that you meet are trash.
That's why day game rules. Or even work place game. Statistically, the two most common places where middle class people meet their wife is a) at university and b) through the work place.
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Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
I've long thought most of TRP and seduction content is based primarily off the backs of the experience with sloots
I think the jaded feelings men have from these experiences are 100% valid but I also 100% agree that if men are selecting into that environment they have to accept it and realize that it's a skewed sample, next such women faster, and try their best not to fall into despair
I'm not free of guilt. I've fallen down this path myself and up until recently had a hard time accepting my part in this selection process instead of quality hunting
Good post, a lot of men need to read this and evaluate what they really want
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
The big problem with "quality women" is........ where the fuck are they??
Makerspaces...... 99% men. Meetup groups.... 99% men. Walking, sailing, socialising, you name it....... 99% men.
Unless it's literally vegan yoga aromatherapy, women are not doing anything where they can meet men.
shaketheroom 3y ago
Meetup groups are for the low class weirdos. I attended some out of pure curiosity. Never met a genuine "cool guy" (high value) from it. But i met a lot of chill betas. Also the girls that go there, seem to be recruiting beta orbiters because they know high value men dont go to meetup . com
So mainly the girls that do go are socially awkward outcasts of women, or HB3-4 who go to those to feel like theyre HB8's to get attention from the low class betas here.
I only went to maybe 5 or 6 meet ups before I was able to draw that conclusion.
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Right, I think we agree.
Ok...... so where do you go to meet quality women?
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
This is why anecdotal I (and I'm sure as well as other men here) are generally not looking for quality women.
There are no places to meet them, only places to NOT meet them
Cold approach appears to be the only viable solution unless you get lucky meeting them somewhere that happens to be respectable.
Even then STILL, how many of those quality women are single? Quality women get off the market quickly.
I think if men could easily find quality women they would but they are scattered all over the place and it's a crapshoot at best finding one. Who do you know to approach apart from knowing who NOT to approach?
The time and energy it takes to filter for quality women even in respectable spaces is still a monumentous effort unless you find joy in constantly approaching women and seeing where it goes
Alas, most men who are aware of low qual girls will nonetheless pursue them because we know where all of them go and where to effectively get them in short time
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mattyanon Admin 3y ago
Even with cold approach I almost never see women I'd like to be with. Could be a problem with this city though.
Personally I'm fine with "see where it goes", I'm happy with casual flings and if it turns into more then great. It's still so hard to find women who step over the lowest bar of acceptable for even a fling though.
benzino 3y ago
The mistake is thinking girls not using tinder, or belong to some "rich club" are exempt from typical female behaviors or hypergamy.
I've met my share of rich girls in school, uni and work, way before Tinder was a thing and I can tell you there's not much difference in terms of behavior. Cheating, IOIs to guys when they had a bf, you name it.
This sounds like putting some rich girl on a pedestal
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millionairegymrat 3y ago
Social Circle game is on the level.
whytehorse2021 3y ago
Bruh! You are in your 3rd year of medicine and you still spell 3rd as 3th and don't use punctuation marks?
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