i'm 28 and i'm (still) working a dead-end job. i finally scraped up enough for community college classes, and i'd like some career advice. currently i'm thinking of getting an associate's in either nursing or computer science. i want to get into IT, be it software or something else, and not exactly because i love it, but because of the lifestyle it may provide (more alone time, possibility of remote work, room for growth). however, i fear for job security and ageism very much, especially since i'm older, and any 21 year with a bachelor's and some talent can easily replace me, and because everybody and their mom is trying to get into tech for same reasons as i am. also i'm afraid of automation, chatgpt and the like, even though i don't know much about this stuff. thus, i thought about another career that one would think definitely has job security - healthcare. i thought about med school but i'd be at best 40 when i'm out of residency and earning the real physician salary, and i also have very little money at the moment. next i thought about nursing since there's a lot of subsidized programs that help with getting a nurse's education and because there's room for vertical (NP, CRNA) or lateral career movement (admin, teaching, healthcare informatics), but i don't enjoy physical labor (or workplace drama) and i'm told that nursing is incredibly demanding and exhausting.
my goal is to be working from home for a US company whilst living abroad in a 2nd world country and having a better quality of life, but i also can't be working these minimum wage jobs much longer. i'd have to go to school for at least 3 years for nursing (prerequisites + associate's), so i'd be 31, and 2 years for computer science (associate's), but i don't know how long i'd have to wait till i actually land a job, or whether i'd have to transfer and put in 2 more years for a bachelor's whilst working more shitty jobs to support this and probably getting into student debt or military reserves/guard to fund this, by which time i'll be 32-33. i'd also like to attain financial independence and retire as early as possible, and living in a cheaper country on US-based savings seems attractive.
any advice/point of view is much appreciated. i know i'm all over the place with this and that, but bear with me - i'm a child of divorce!

thamesbond007 2y ago
Physician here. I'd advise avoiding nursing as the healthcare industry is >80% female and therefore the pay per unit work is guaranteed to decrease each year, as whytehorse2021 said. Don't worry about AI taking over tech jobs, it won't happen soon and only creates more jobs in the short term. I myself am considering leaving medicine for tech.
WokeDown 2y ago
Nursing will be steady work for the forseeable future but expect shit hours in the beginning. If you don't mind body fluids and disgusting people, yeah.
Computer science is good work but you'll probably never rise to the top if you weren't doing it since early on. You can still get pretty good work in a company or dare I say it, in the military. Usually by working on ancient stuff no industry wants to support (think Cobol). Don't go into video games, it will eat you up and spit you out. Easier time and money in boring business stuff. There's a chance AI will replace the lower ranks in the future so government work is easier. Ageism is a thing but not in your late 20s early 30s. You want to be cemented in by 40. Imo, check government or military work if you can -- because they have problems recruiting since Iraq, entrance requirements had been lax (although I'm not up to date how it's now).
User4566 2y ago
Maybe talk to a guidance counselor at your school.
Lone_Ranger 3 2y ago
28??? that is young. I had a major career change at 45.
Nursing doesn't really fit in with remote work. I'm often surprised at how much nurses get paid in the USA, over here in the UK, they get paid poverty wages. Many of them have to use food banks. The nurse wages are suppressed by a constant stream of new entrants from the 3rd world, Africa, Indonesia and Malaysia. I would be a bit concerned about the downward pressure on wages as a nurse if I were in the USA ....things change, and not usually for the better for labour. Usually they change for the better of those that purchase labour - which is health care companies.
If you're going into programming and you're worried about Ai - don't be. The growth field in IT is going to be Ai - not necessarily development (you're likely too low end for that) but in implementation. There are going to be millions of clients looking for help in how to implement Ai because their workforce is so retarded. This is going to be a huge growth area, and it won't be a short lived either.
For example, how will an insurance company use Ai for better underwriting? How will a car rental company use Ai to set prices?
A software engineer that specialises in implementing Ai for corporate clients will be able to charge at least $1500 per day I would have though, and be constantly booked out.
Edit - I didn't mean to be rude when I said 'you're likely too low end for that' - I meant that the kind of people developing Ai will be very high end programers, the kind that got PhDs at the age of 24. Didn't mean it as a slur - just meant that if you start IT at 28, you're not going to be the cutting edge of IT that makes Ai. Anyhow, I reckon there is more money to be made in implementation than in development, which is usually the way.
whytehorse2021 2y ago
I'd nix the nursing idea simply because women choose that career and women are agreeable so the wages are low. That's been slowly changing since the pandemic but project it out 10 years and it doesn't seem like a good path.
I'm trying to do the remote work from a cheap country route currently. It isn't panning out. Plenty of people all over the world will gladly do my programming job for $10/hr. I'll throw you a bone here if you can help me out. I'm switching to game development. You could learn unreal engine and help me get this game going and boom, we can both work remotely making Western money. Your investment would be a $4k dev rig and lots of time but it will be the most likely thing to work out in the end. People pay for games. They will continue to pay for them more and more to escape their shitty lives. Here's the kickstarter preview. DM me for my email and more discussion. https://www.kickstarter.com/projects/1613239793/1725379117?ref=e92x7r&token=94b37f1c
mattyanon Admin 2y ago
tech is a great career if you're good at it, and you can largely teach yourself.
the other stuff: it's tough to be in school for a decade, but don't worry too much about the age thing. you'll be fine, people don't care as much about it as you think.