I matched with this girl while on a holiday. We had a nice time but no sex. Later she asked me if i wanted to go on a holiday. I had some time to kill so we travelled for 3-4 days and fucked. She visited my town a month back and stayed over for 3-4 days and we had a nice time. Now she had some work in my town and also there is an extended holiday (good friday and some other bullshit) so shes again coming over.
Initially she said she'd be over at mine for 2 days. Later increased to 4. Now she has increased the stay for 8 days (she's taking a leave for 2 days and rest are public holidays in my country). Shes hot and well settled with her own job and a lot of money. The catch is shes divorced (2 yrs back). How do i act while she is here.
Secondly, should i tell her to not stay for this long. I had to postpone a few dates with plates because shes going to stay this long. They were bitching about it.
Stee_Man 3y ago
Why not just be honest? "I like having you around, but we've only known each other 2 months. We've not ready to get serious. A weekend stay is enough, not a whole week."
No offense, but it's beta to be afraid to say no.
Ocbbbbbbbb 3y ago
Sounds like you're pussy whipped. Kick the bitch out.
No-Stress-Cat 2 3y ago
Why not invite them over for a threesome?
mattyanon Admin 3y ago
normal. don't make too much of a fuss of her.
enjoy it!
Vermillion-Rx Admin 3y ago
Why don't you focus on demonstrating the actual value you have and giving her an enjoyable and exciting time instead of looking for alpha cards you can pull out of your sleeve
You could have mitigated this entirely by telling her you're going to be out of town or some white lie. This was an unforced error and if you allowed it already it's just going to cause problems to reneg on it now that it's done