Met this girl last week, had fun, good chemistry and made out at the end. Texted her 3/4 days later, few texts back and forth then asked her about her availability to do something this week, left me on read (she never read my texts). I'm inclined it's done but I'm thinking it's a bit harsh to leave it as is, any advice? try give her a call ?
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Shades9ine 2y ago
Next, bro. You attempted to set up a meet and she ignored you (depending on the messaging platform, she might be able to read the message without opening it, allowing her plausible deniability in the event you ask her if she saw your message). If she wants to do something with you, she'll holla. The ball's in her court, bro. Don't push.
AbundanceKid 2y ago
I appreciate your comment bro. I won't push.
Vermillion-Rx Admin 2y ago
Next
She's going above and beyond to not facilitate any kind of connection with you
AbundanceKid 2y ago
Ehh this is extreme but kinda agree
No-Stress-Cat 2y ago
Bro, you've got it backwards. She nexted you. You have to take the lead. "I'm doing this on Wednesday. I want you to come with me."
If she's interested, she WILL make herself available. "Yes, I'd love to join you."
If she can't or doesn't want to go, she will tell you. "Can I take a raincheck?"
NOW, you're in the position to next her or not. "I'll let you know when I'm next available."
Leave it at that. You are now not available to her on Wednesday. She blew her chance. That chance now goes to the next chick on the list.
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AbundanceKid 2y ago
Thanks bro yeah I may have to be more direct/leading when asking a girl out