This sounds autistic but sheesh. Any of you guys ever see the games your girl is playing and just want to logically lay out what she is doing and why to her. I was a heavy stoner before being put on probation for drug charges. The plated I had fell in love with me due to the fact I was a completely laid back and quiet guy. I was fried 247 and would just listen to the girl ramble about her books while I worked at my desk. It was unbelievable, we spent that entire year together while we smoked weed, fucked and sat at a desk, she laid in my bed behind me just working on her books she wrote. Our entire relationship was her talking and me saying something every 30 min. She admitted one day that she wanted to spend the rest of her life with me and loved talking to me. I went into a state of shock after hearing that. 99% of our relationship was me listening to her while my mind was on another planet Everything changed when I got arrested for drug charges, i became present again due to sobriety and started talking about my issues. Her persona did a complete 180 after that and was never the same again. My mistake was laying out logically what she was doing and why to her. Like the community says, you cant logic a girl when their feeling are somewhere else, Ive been on disability due to a bike accident the last 5 years so I had a lot of emotions bottled up that came out to her. Any of you guys relate on what I'm trying to say? Had a bit too much to drink tonight and had this thought come up. Wanted to lay it out while still on my mind.
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JamesSkepp 2 months ago
Don't. She doesn't want to be fixed.
Not specifically b/c you explained, but more b/c you did't manage her properly. Women don't want to be explained to. Women want to be led. Explaining doesn't make her feel anything.
TRPPRT2021 2 months ago
Not OP, but I've done the same thing when I was asked why I don't chase - I was logical about it but I ended up making it playful/flipping on her - how do you go about the 'leading' part?
JamesSkepp 2 months ago
I meant leading in general, not any specific "leading" in the OP's question.
Lone_Ranger 2 months ago
It sounds like you are in a world of pain brother. Good for you that you got off the weed. But you said that you "had too much to drink tonight" so it doesnt look like you are sober.
Without knowing anything about you, I would say you are worried about the wrong thing here. You are worrying about a chick, when you should be focused on building your life back up. My first step would be to get off that booze. Go to AA. Do it tonight.
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whytehorse2021 2 months ago
Every man who has ever attempted to teach red pill to a woman has failed. Women have their own versions of blue/red pill. Blue pill for women is getting flown out to Miami, partying on yachts, and getting big checks to do playboy shoots. Their youth and fertility is evergreen. Red pill for women is when they're not getting flown out, not invited to the party, and not getting big checks for photos.
Intrepid_Place53900 2 months ago
( 99% of our relationship was me listening to her)
As others said, girls don't want to hear about your problems.
they also don't want to hear about what's wrong with them.
Look at the good side of this.
You learned what not to do, with a girl who would have been a nightmare staying with. So, that is a win/win.
No-Stress-Cat 2 months ago
Nope. Also, by being her girlfriend, you lost your frame. Plate smashed. Time to replace. And stop talking about Fight Club to women.
Typo-MAGAshiv 2 months ago
Just because you're tempted to do something doesn't mean it's a good idea.
Because it is.
Women don't operate on logic. You might as well speak a foreign language to them.